 | | | Girl Problems should I tell her how I feel?
Asked Jul 25, 2012, 02:18 PM
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16 Answers Okay, so me and this girl are really good friends. I talk to her everyday,we text everyday, hang out with her at least 1-2 times a week. I flirt with her, she flirts back and I really like her. I think she likes me, when I tell her I want to cuddle she says she would like to and she said that 4th of july would have been better if she had been able to watch fireworks with me. She said she doesn't plan on letting me go anytime soon. Lately though she hasn't been doing flirting as much, I think she may be losing interest in me and I don't want her to. I really like this girl I think about her non stop, I love her quirkiness, her funny mannerisms, the way she acts, the way she talks, her funny faces she makes, everything, I want her to know how I feel, but i'm not sure if i should tell her. Someone told me I shouldn't, but i want to. I'm not really sure how I should tell her though or where to begin. I want to tell her in person but she makes me nervous sometimes. Should I text her or tell her on the phone? Can someone please help me, I've never really liked a girl the way I like her and I don't want her to be a "what if". I would hate to lose our friendship but i don't want to be "just friends" with her, I want more. So I'm willing to risk it. I told her i had to talk to her something very important but I wanted to tell her in person, but she keeps begging me to tell her over text though. She said she wants me to tell her over text, because when people put her on the spot she changes the subject. But i fear that if i tell her through text she might not respond back? Thread Summary |
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Jul 27, 2012, 04:29 PM
| | | I was thinking of asking her something like.. "Hey if a guy wants to tell a girl how he feels do you think he should tell her on the phone, in person, or text?" Than i'll tell her whichever way she answers. | | |  | Dating & Teen Expert | |
Jul 27, 2012, 04:35 PM
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You said: I told her i had to talk to her something very important but I wanted to tell her in person, but she keeps begging me to tell her over text though. She said she wants me to tell her over text, because when people put her on the spot she changes the subject.
She has already told you what she wants, why are you not getting it? | | |  | New Member | |
Jul 29, 2012, 10:55 AM
| | | Ok I told this girl how I felt. Okay, i decided to tell this girl how I felt, and I told her over text at night and I pretty much told her all the things I like about her and how I wanna be with her. This is what she said back.
"Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh how did i know sine day 1 this was gonna happen.. lol idek what to say:) haha thanx, ugh alright ima be completely foreals with u, you're fukin amazing, you're funny weird adorable tht laugh of urs is unforgetable, when we tlk on the phone at night i can tell u eveything and not worry about you judging :Me and i swear its soo weird how at first i thought u were just a friend tht i wasnt gonna like u and my friend would always tell me, "watch ur gonna end up liking him" and i would just ignore her, and i do, i do like u but i do have a bf idk wtf im supposed to do in this situation im stuck not really confused, just a little.I knowwwwww i ed up.. dont get me wrong its not you right now its all me, haha theres this saying tht goes like this, if ur confused over two guys pick the second one cuz if u loved the first one you woulda never strtd to like the second one... but idk im confused still!"
Should I wait for her to break up with her bf, which I assume she's gonna do? Or what? I'm 17 she is 15. | | |  | Dating & Teen Expert | |
Jul 29, 2012, 11:34 AM
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I merged these two threads. There was no reason to start another.
You go on with your life. She has a boyfriend. She said she is confused, she didn't say she was going to leave her boyfriend. | | |  | New Member | |
Jul 29, 2012, 06:40 PM
| | | I would but I really like this chick. I didn't know she had a boyfriend until than. I've never felt like i do about this chick, we hang out and talk about nothing for hours, we're completely comfortable and act like ourselves around eachother. We're best friends, but we have feelings for eachother. It's weird. I don't think i could just let it go. | | |  | Dating & Teen Expert | |
Jul 29, 2012, 07:03 PM
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She has a boyfriend. If she had the same feelings for you, she would be with you.
Don't sniff around her life a puppy dog. Back off. | | |  | New Member | |
Aug 1, 2012, 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 She has a boyfriend. If she had the same feelings for you, she would be with you.
Don't sniff around her life a puppy dog. Back off. | I know she has a boyfriend. She never sees her boyfriend though and she asked me to go to the mall with her today. | | | | Thread Tools | Search this Thread | | | |
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