Girl Problem

drummergirl6 · May 2, 2012, 01:41 AM

well i guess i just stop chasing at this point, seems pointless ha

dragonbaby914 · Jun 16, 2012, 08:42 PM

I am sorry I haven't been on lately sweetie how is things going? and never stop for love sweetie even if she isnt the one there are others out there just like you looking for love.

drummergirl6 · Jun 17, 2012, 05:12 AM

Its been odd, she finally messaged me saying she wasnt interested and that she liked someone else, then a week later she sent me some flirty texts and i asked her about them when she sobered up and she had no answers for me, sometimes she ignores my text sometimes she dont and she always cool with me in person. I think i am going to have one last attempt to talk to her in private about it as i dont know where i stand and i would like to know

dragonbaby914 · Jun 17, 2012, 09:26 AM

make sure you ask questions of how she can be cool with you in person is she cool with you around her friends or just you & her? or both?
Ask her if she remembers the flirty texts where all about?
She may be saying she likes someone else because maybe she does? Or maybe she isn't interested in you?
But, what gets me is how can you be all flirty & nice when your under the influence but sober is she the same flirty if not it might be the way she acts under the influence, see some people change when they are under the influence but others don't, some remember nothing or be like me where I remember everything!
You should just talk as a friend & ask her where you stand but don't fall into the trap & get your heart shattered or hope's up,
it seems like to me she is confused on what she wants or likes hun,
I'll be here

drummergirl6 · Jun 17, 2012, 10:00 AM

thanks i did ask her the day after about the texts and she didnt give me an answer really she was like i dont know, and she isnt flirty sober she comes out of her shell when she has a few drinks. I just feel like in the middle and i dont know whats going on when she does one thing then does another. we always hang with friends and that and she cool with me then

dragonbaby914 · Jun 17, 2012, 10:16 AM

try to get one on one time.... but, if she needs a few drinks to get loose that is kinda pathetic because then that kinda means she has to have drinks in order to be herself or it can start to be a problem if she likes someone and she drinks she can flirt with someone else when she is already with someone.

drummergirl6 · Jun 17, 2012, 04:35 PM

well i will get her one on one when i have to speak to her, but we shall see what happens. thanks for the help though

dragonbaby914 · Jun 17, 2012, 10:40 PM

if the help workd or doesnt I am sorry but ill be there for u in any time of need

good luck hun

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