I am 25 yrs old. There is this girl I go to school with. She is 31 yrs old. We get together very well, we talk, laugh she even invited me to a bar-b-q yesterday. She recently aquired a boyfriend who is her age. I have feelings for this girl and I have no idea what to say to her or even how to say it. What should I do?

the_gentleman

Does she know that you like her or does she think you are just a good friend, cause that is what it sounds like to me.

talaniman

Because she has been friendly, doesn't mean she is interested in you romantically. She has a boyfriend, so keep your feeling to yourself, and be her friend, although less available.

svatnsdal

It is very common for men and woman to be friends! Most of my friends through my life have been male, yes I'm a female.
Stay friends with her, enjoy your friendship.
Tell her? That's an iffy. You could, if it bothered you. However, telling her could either end your friendship or nothing at all. Is it worth risking loosing her as a friend?

liz28

You should leave her alone since she has someone. Did these feelings come on before or after she meet her b/f? Any I think you should back off little and try not to be around her much since you have feelings for her b/c your feelings will grow. In the meantime find someone that is single for yourself and let your feeling grow for her only if it mutal. Also, you might just have a crush so let it go and dont worry ur get over it.