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Old Nov 4, 2009, 08:33 PM
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getting a guy to like you

hi i am new to this site and i dont know if i am using it right well heres my problem i realy like this guy but he's kind of one of those guys whos in the "popular group" i guss i am in the popular group to but i realy like him and i am not much of the flirty tpe i am a little more quite but the thing is ts almost seems like he likes me but iam not sure how do i know for sure ?

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Old Nov 5, 2009, 08:48 AM   #2  
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Here's always been my thought processes. There's no such thing as "getting him to like you". He rather will, or won't. So, that being said, talk to him. Find an opening somewhere. When he's alone. If you are in class, or on the way out, and say something that may spark his attention. Like, I see you like football, who's you're favorite team? Or, wow, I thought that answer you gave in class made sense, good job, what do you think about this question?

Find anything, but have a plan. Then, 1 of 2 things will happen. 1, it will fail in one way or another. Like he says, Do I know you? or he seems a bit of a snob. In that case forget it.. But if 2 happens where he smiles and seems happy you broke the ice, just say, hey, maybe we could hang out sometime, you seem pretty cool.

If he seems shy, and quite, this I always find the hardest, after you break the ice ask about him. Like, Seen any good movies lately? or something related to the original ice breaker.

It works! Curious to see how it goes, keep me posted! ^_^
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i love your advice i will try it the only thing is its not him whos shy its more me
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That's fine, you'll see that when you actually have a plan, it will be easier to do it. Use you're excitement for the better! Good Luck!
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Be yourself always and never be ashamed of who you are by pretending to be something else.
No one like you ,embrace that!
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Talk to him more.

Get to know him better.

Enjoy the time you spend together.

Let things flow naturally.

See where that leads.

It's the journey that matters, not the destination.
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If all you've done is seen this guy, and you haven't put forth an effort to be friends, or talk to him, I would cool your jets. Be friends first before you start wanting this guy to like you back- after all, does he even KNOW you? Do you know him?
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