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Old Mar 13, 2009, 06:21 PM
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fight between my gf and i

well my gf doesnt want to go to school and ive tried to tell her that its very important for every reason and that its for the best but she wont listen. her friend told me i should just let her be but i just really dont like that she isnt going to school and im not sure what to do. right now were not talking...

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Old Mar 13, 2009, 06:26 PM   #2  
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Well not talking isn't going to solve anything!

Go around and tell her how your feeling and why your feeling this way, that you care for her and that is why her future matters so much to you.


Do this calmly and cool.

She is obviously going through alot now, tell her that your there for her if she needs to talk or if there is anything else you can do.

Communication is key.
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I think if you have shared your very reasonable viewpoint that school is necessary and you would like her to attend, beyond that you as her boyfriend can not force her to attend. I think it is time to focus on your own schooling and leave her to fail, but I wouldn't have her as a girlfriend anymore.
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I have told her about the goods and the bads and that the cost of everything is rising in the economy and about jobs and all that and i said it nicely and she still doesnt want to
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Well then you have no choice, it is her decision at the end of the day and you have to respect that.

Not the easiest pill to swallow I know.
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