hey dana here
And i seriously need some advice..
every relationship i've had has been plague by jealousy and insecurity. Overall i'm very confident in my self and in my looks..but when in a relationship insecurity is there..I've dated my bf for about 1 year and we just broke up and its mostly becuz our arguing about him not understanding how i feel toward sex on tv and in movies. I really dont know where this part of my personality came about but it got worst as i got older... im 21 now and SINGLE once again becuz of this crappy side of me..Im the perfect gf but i get weirded out when im watching tv or movies and nude scenes come on. Me feeling this way i also feel uncomfortable with my bf watching it so when they do look i feel VERY disrespected..in my head i think they should only be allowed to look at me..but i dont tell them that. I really need to change..cuz im getting older and i will have to settle down one day..i know i have to fix this problem before starting another relationship so please any advice will help..thanks alot!

ISneezeFunny

no you're not. no one is.

but regardless of that...what is it about nudity on tv/movies that bothers you so much?

also, do you expect your future husband to be a virgin?

dana21

Well i was saying in my own opinion i was SO called perfect..off course no1 is..but i use it to say that ive done and gone out my way many times to make a loved 1 happy.

It just makes me feel uncomfortable..i think i should have been living in the 50's becuz most people dont understand where i come from becuz sex is so common on tv nowadays so everyone thinks its alright..

I dont think i could find a husband whose a virgin lol but besides that i just want someone to relate to me and i guess talk to me and try to make me understand..ive never had that with a guy..i kno some guys are more understanding with their gf but others r just selfish..they want what they want and thats that. I guess thats why i never sought out advice on changing.

Krystina1987

i feel the same way about not wanting my boyfriend to watch nude scenes or nude girls. i feel like i am the only girl he should be seeing in the nude. but thats how i feel.

N0help4u

I agree to a degree BUT you have to remember that is TV and you are the real deal.

dana21

i agree with u very much.i dont want to TELL him what to do...but see that he just understands me..and respects me n look away..i guesss im more important then that on tv..n if he makes a fuse about it i would think that whats on tv matters more then i do.

Krystina1987

i would feel the same way dana21

missfrootyness16

same here. i want for him to love me and not expect me to look exactly like the models have *** on tv....

pyg

maybe it might help to think that he *chose* to date and love you, instead of all the other nude girls (:

missfrootyness16

ahaha so true