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Old Feb 20, 2007, 02:49 AM
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I dumped my boyfriend/ and I want him back.

I broke up with my boyfriend on v-day, Because I thought he liked my bestfriend, After I broke things off, I talked to him about it, And I relized that I was wrong. And now he wont talk to me hardly at all, And when we do talk, I get all toung tied and dont know what to say, so I end up saying something that leads into a fight. I just want him back. And Ill do anything. So Please Help.......

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Old Feb 20, 2007, 03:05 AM   #2  
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Sorry but you made that decision. Do you really blame your ex boyfriend. You need to let go and move on. You made that decision.

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Why would he even want to get back with some one that impulsive, If you have said your sorry then leave it alone and learn the lesson of get the facts before you accuse. The ball is in his court whether he wants to talk to you or take another chance. If you chase him he will run.
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This is where you learn that the inexperienced/immature use breaking up as a way to say, "Ummm, I think we have a problem." Next time you'll be more inclined to use more truthful words instead of overly dramatic actions, I bet. The best you can do now is learn the lesson with as little fuss as possible. As for him, I would believe him that he is making it plain he doesn't want you back and leave him alone. It will all be okay, you'll see in time when you do a little more growing up, sweetie. To all young people this feels like the end of the world but it isn't, I assure you it really isn't.
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Look at it this way...

If he came up to you one day, accused you of something he thought you did, and broke up with you, then wanted to get back together... would you take him back, or would you not want anything to do with him (except maybe revenge)?

My guess is the latter. And, of course, if it's the former, you'd earn the misery that would lead to. What that boils down to is that wanting him back means you want him to be miserable. You don't want that, do you?

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I broke up with my boyfriend on v-day, Because I thought he liked my bestfriend, After I broke things off, I talked to him about it, And I relized that I was wrong. And now he wont talk to me hardly at all, And when we do talk, I get all toung tied and dont know what to say, so I end up saying something that leads into a fight. I just want him back. And Ill do anything. So Please Help.......
FIRST THINGS FIRST WHAT THE HELL WERE U THINKING IF HE LOVES YOU THE GET BACK WITH HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE SORRY FOR WHAT YOU DID AND IT WAS A BIG MISUNDERSTANDING AND WHAT NOT BUT YEAH GET BACK WITH HIM AND TELL HIM THAT YOU LOVE HIM ALOT AND YOU NEVER WANT TO LET HIM GO
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