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    Sep 12, 2010, 10:35 PM
    I don't know who I'm attracted to
    I know that Im straight, Ive been in love before but it was with a guy way older than me and he was unattainable. But for some reason I've never really enjoyed kissing or anything with my boyfriends. I just started dating this guy a couple days ago and he seems nice and funny I guess, and I want a boyfriend but he just always wants to make out and I can never get into it, even though I always think about stuff like that when I'm not in a relationship. I don't know why I'm not attracted to guys I date, I know I'm not gay but sometimes I think I just have a really inactive sex drive, even though I get horny when I'm on my own. What's going on?
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    Sep 14, 2010, 02:11 PM

    Maybe you just haven't met the right fellow! You can't expect fireworks with every kiss... be patient and you'll find Mr. Right some day.
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    Sep 14, 2010, 04:07 PM

    Maybe you are just not attracted to these guys. Nothing wrong with that.
    You don't feel something with everybody you kiss.
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    Sep 14, 2010, 04:10 PM

    How old are you and the guy?
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