I don't have a bf

swimgals621 · #1 Aug 23, 2007, 08:01 PM

I'm 12 and i don't have a boyfriend. there's lots of boys crushing on me but they don't have the guts to ask me out. Is this normal?

nicespringgirl · Aug 23, 2007, 08:13 PM

Yes, it is normal.
When it's the right, he will show up

Be patient and don't forget ur first duty is school at this moment.
12 yr old is too young to date, have you talked to your parents hun?

nicespringgirl · Aug 23, 2007, 08:23 PM

LOL, kids nowadays...sigh...

huno · Aug 23, 2007, 11:01 PM

At 12, shouldn't you be more worried about having a Barbie or a Pokemon or whatever the hell it is kids are into these days?

Boys around your age are all morons; they're not worth your time. Wait for them (and you) to grow up into men.

heatherwaverly · Aug 23, 2007, 11:42 PM

Absolutely this is normal at your age. Most guys are too shy to ask girls out. If I were you I'd ask one of the guys out who you're interested in. If you feel they already like you then I'm sure you'll get a positive response. If, for some reason, the guy says no, you'll still feel great for having the courage to try something bold. I have two brothers who both tell me how they wish girls would be the ones to typically ask the guys out. I've taken that advice and met my current boyfriend that exact same way! Go for it!

boomslang · Aug 26, 2007, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by swimgals621

I'm 12 and i don't have a boyfriend. there's lots of boys crushing on me but they don't have the guts to ask me out. Is this normal?

Yep, this is very normal. Most people don't have boyfriends or girlfriends at 12. I didn't! But I did have a few guys crushing on me and I had a few crushes on some guys. Having crushes is fun. Just enjoy the fact that these boys think you're cute. Remember that having a boyfriend doesn't make you cooler, nicer, smarter, prettier or more popular. At the moment it's just important to focus on growing up to be the best person you can be.

nicespringgirl · Aug 26, 2007, 09:59 AM

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having a boyfriend doesn't make you cooler, nicer, smarter, prettier or more popular

That's right, hun!

Mandmo · Sep 6, 2007, 04:35 PM

At 12 boys are idiots! They don't know a good thing until it is infront of them. Personally I would wait until your 16 to have a boyfriend, because 12 is way to young. You have your whole life to date. At 16 ypu have a little money, he can drive you places (instead of his Mommy driving you). Personally boys are really immature and gross looking until 18 or 19, then they are smoking HOT ans ready for a true commitment and not some 2 week relationship. Just focus on school, sports, friends, and especially your family because htye will always be there for you!

think_pink · Sep 6, 2007, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by swimgals621

I'm 12 and i don't have a boyfriend. there's lots of boys crushing on me but they don't have the guts to ask me out. Is this normal?

its normal 12 years old guys dont have the guts to ask a girl out , they're either to scared or to much into playing games
just wait a guy will come and ask you out when he feels right
u might think they dont want to but later on you wont know how to stop them from asking you out

trust me =)



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