I don't have a bf

swimgals621 · Aug 23, 2007, 08:01 PM

I'm 12 and i don't have a boyfriend. there's lots of boys crushing on me but they don't have the guts to ask me out. Is this normal?

souljah shortay · Sep 18, 2007, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

This is true, but there is no point in helping them along. I just believe 12 years old is too young to be dating. I didn't let mine do it at that age and she survived childhood just fine.

I'm not saying it will ruin her life if she doesn't have one, but I don't think that she absolutely shouldn't cause she's too young. I agree kids are trying to grow up too fast but you're not her mother.

Dnovy521 · Sep 18, 2007, 05:40 PM

yes you are fine. The boys will start to "man up" the next year and get the guts to ask you out. Im almost positive. Although when they do ask u out, it probably will be a quiet relationship where u see eachother in the hallways and all u do is give them the ol' "hi". once you get to be about 14 or 15 in high school, i think that would be the appropriate age to date. Just be patient and in time they will come

Homegirl 50 · Sep 19, 2007, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by souljah shortay

I'm not saying it will ruin her life if she doesn't have one, but I don't think that she absolutely shouldn't cause she's too young. I agree kids are trying to grow up too fast but you're not her mother.

No I'm not her mother. But she came HERE asking, I did not go to her. She either wants advice or she doesn't and some of it will be what she doesn't want to here. That's the price for posting on a site such as this.
But you're not her mother either, so chill.