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Does she like me or is she just using me?
Asked May 29, 2011, 03:10 PM
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17 Answers Hi, So I met this girl at the mall while I was shopping a little over a month ago. We literally bumped into each other. We started talking and exchanged numbers. I'm 26 and she is 22. We talked on the phone and txted for a week. I then asked her out on a date and she said "I would really like that!" I took her out to dinner. We had a nice time and when it was over I walked her to her car and gave her a hug goodbye. She txt me the next day and said she had a great time and wants to see me soon. So we made plans for a few days later. She wanted to come over my place so I could cook for her. So, she came over and I cooked. Afterwards we watched a movie, cuddled a bit, and I gave her a massage. I walked her to her car again and went to give her a small kiss on the lips and she turned her cheek. It was a little weird cause I felt chemistry...And wanted to give her a short kiss goodbye. She txt me again the next day and said she had a great time! We made plans again and I picked her up and took her to the movies. When I dropped her back off she turned her cheek again while she was hugging me. So obviously I didn't try for a kiss. Is this a bad sign? I don't know if she likes me...or if she's just hanging out with me when she has nothing else to do....or she is just a really "good" girl. I mean I'm not pushing anything physical on her at all, but I do like her and it would be nice to kiss her...Any ideas? Thanks |
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| I think that if you like her, then tell her how you feel and see how she responds. Asking her where she thinks you stand is like pushing her against the corner. Bottom line, if you like her and you feel it's the right time to let her know, then tell her. Otherwise, just keep enjoying each other's company and get to know each other better. Let things develop and flow naturally. | ||||
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| Well she totally ****ed me off today. We were suppose to go to the shooting range at 1pm. She said she was really excited to see me...I txt her lastnight and she never responded, never called, or showed up. Should I just do NC now. This is the 2nd time she ditched me with no reason at all... | ||||
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| Don't go back for more of the same, just go back to fishing, After you have tried it, it didn't work, then you move on.maybe its her fault things ain't working now, but if you stay for more of the same it will be totally your fault. Sort of like ignoring a stop sign, or a do not enter sign. Its never the signs fault that you didn't obey it, it always YOURS! | ||||
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Cool, thanks for everyone's help. I really appreciate it. I deleted her number and I'm moving on. This is a very great site! | ||||
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| Just a comment, If people used the phone to call, not text, you may pick up some clues from her attitude and tone of voice. Phones are made to talk on, really.  This younger crowd seems to fear the human voice over a phone. You miss a lot by not having actual conversations.  | ||||
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