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Old Oct 31, 2009, 01:44 PM
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Does he want to hang out with me, or no?

So I recently met a guy and we've hung out twice. Before he left my house yesterday, he asked if I wanted to go to a halloween party with him tonight. I told him probably. so I texted him today and asked if he still wanted me to go with him. he said he doesn't know if he's going anymore and he might go to a club. he said his best friend is gonna be in town and wants to chill. So later I told him I may just drink myself silly. He asked what I was gonna drink. I told him probably some vodka and juice, and smirnoff ice. He goes, ummmm sounds good, I may have to stop over by you later. I was like, is that right? he goes, yeah if you want me to. so I told him yeah. A few hours later I texted him and he said he was bored. I was like, you should come and drink with me, *cough* He was like, "lol, maybe". So a little bit later I reminded him that if he wanted to come drink with me, he could. I know he was talking about hanging out with his best friend, but I would think if he still was, he wouldn't had said he would stop over here. He was like, "Maybe " so I left it at that and was like "Ok ". I hate when people tell me maybe. He seems like the type that would tell me if he was busy doing other things. But I hate "maybe". Cause some people say it meaning no, and others mean it as just that, maybe.

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Old Nov 2, 2009, 03:40 PM   #11  
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Of course i'm not looking for someone to mess around with. But I can't determine if I want to marry someone eventually unless I'm with them for at least 6 months to a year. But I won't even marry someone if I've been with them for 2+ years. And cuddling does not always lead to kissing. The guy I'm seeing stayed the night over here a few nights ago and when we went to bed, we cuddled, but he still hasnt' kissed me, so your assumption is wrong.
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Old Nov 3, 2009, 05:27 AM   #12  
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Cuddling isn't leading to kissing right away- but it eventually will lead to a kiss, unless of course you leave him before that, or hel eaves you. It doesn't take 2 years to find the guy that doesn't stomp on your heart. Why couldn't you just be friends for a year or so instead of date him for a year or so? That way you won't get emotionally involved and set yourself up to be heartbroken.
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