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Old Aug 12, 2009, 11:58 AM
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Does he still love me

There is a guy who lives in another state and we are in love and I love him and he calls me baby and sweetheat and angel

and we talk for hours on the phone and he says he loves me
but then just the other day he told me he wishs i was there and he loves me though he likes another girl and hasnt told her but ever since then i have been dreaming about him kissing another girl
I am so upset I mean we still talk and he even talks about marrying me and he loves me but i am afraid does he still love me cause he likes this other girl

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Old Aug 12, 2009, 12:23 PM   #2  
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So how old are you, and how did you meet? I think telling you about another girl he likes is a red flag that he is feeding you a lot of hooey. Honestly, how can he sweet talk you and still be thinking of another??

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If it's not this girl, it will just be another girl. how can you trust him? He has to realize that by telling you that he has feelings for another girl, it will just push you away. Doesn't sound like he cares about your feelings very much.
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He may very well care about you, but he is not considerate of you at all. Until he decides to grow up, you should move on. If he does love you then he will eventually commit himself to you, and until then, talk to him, but date other people.
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he even talks about marrying me and he loves me but i am afraid does he still love me cause he likes this other girl
He knows you have a thing on him and he's enjoying it (and don't want you to lose it) but hey look, he didn't take advantage of it.

Get out of this make believe thing. He's just using you to boost his ego.
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He is making you insecure by making you jealous so he can keep you. This ain't good and its not right. I wouldn't trust someone like that with my heart for sure.
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He probably has a crush on the girl, lusts for her but im confused that's completely childish to tell you it's 1 thing to tell you he thinks shes pretty but its another when he's telling you he likes her. It could be him testing you to see your reaction. I think you should confront him, and ask him what is his motive if he loves you, and if he gives you a sorry reason you'll know what to do...
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There is a guy who lives in another state and we are in love and I love him and he calls me baby and sweetheat and angel

and we talk for hours on the phone and he says he loves me
but then just the other day he told me he wishs i was there and he loves me though he likes another girl and hasnt told her but ever since then i have been dreaming about him kissing another girl
I am so upset I mean we still talk and he even talks about marrying me and he loves me but i am afraid does he still love me cause he likes this other girl
Ha, sweet talker. Get him face to face with you, see if they says those cheesy things.
How did you get to know this guy, OP?
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He is just feeding you exactly what you want to hear...just to keep you around...while he pursuing this other woman...

Just move on....
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