i am 17 and i went on a date with this guy i had been talking to for a while, when we first met it was a little weird this was my first date ever so i am not the most in tune on this subject but by the end of the date we were having a great time laughing and kissing but it has been about 3 days and he still hasent called me i have texted him a few times but he kind of just blew me off in a way. we went from talking ever night to this. i am so confused is he still interested? i need some advice asap!

bizygurl

It may not mean anything bad. I would give it a week, then give him a call and see if he wants to get together again. It really has only been 3 days, he may be playing the game like everyone else does. Its kinda typical to not hear anything right away after a first date. I wouldnt worry too much about it. Ya never know, he could have been caught up in other things.. call him in a week if you havent heard anything.

mona93

give him some time...then talk to him again...don't freak out....after that if he is not interested..then you must freak out....just kidding ...just go on...find another guy

talaniman

Don't take it personally and leave him alone. what ever his issues, you may never know, but there are other dates that await you. Don't get stuck on this one.

redhed35

dont worry about one guy..leave it alone for a while,go out with your friends and enjoy yourself.

kp2171

back off some.

you might like him. he might like you. or not. or maybe.

but the honest truth is most people like to chase a little and be chased a little... so... step back an see what happens. you have made some moves. youve put yourself out there, maybe even too much.

i dont like mind games... i think the more genuine a person can be the better... you obviously have the courage and ability to seek out what you might want.

but... what about him? we know nothing yet other than he isnt chasing you.

is he not interested?

is he interested but not ready to chase?

is he interested but doesnt know what to do?

and on and on and on...

so... if you were my sister id tell you to step back some... sometimes good people just arent good matches even when they like each other. sometimes poor matches get together anyway despite the inevitable crash and burn.... id probably put him to the wall too if you were my sis...

try not to overthink this. i know how stupid that sounds. believe me.

but he is either a guy who will meet your needs... and one of those needs is to be chased... or he isnt. and if he isnt, fine.

ive even loved two women i just couldnt be with. it happens. ive liked more who didnt think we were a good enough match... and im sure there've been a few who liked me large but didnt have the social skills to keep pace with me or who werent ready to move on from past loves.

so... ive typed a lot to say basically "i dunno... but keep your chin up"

i certainly wouldnt initiate any more contact in the near future... sounds like if he isnt willing to chase you some that you will feel unfulfilled.... i dont like head games, but im willing to chase some and i want to be chased some.

quid pro quo.