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Old Aug 14, 2007, 11:29 AM
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datng or faking?

Hi, please advice me as I completely got lost
...I am friends with a guy I really like. He says he feels same way towards me and we have really good time together just by talking about everything and time passes very quickly. we are friends one month only. The one thing is that I don't understand: he never takes me out or buys me flowers. Everytime he comes over to my place, I make dinner for him and then we sit talking, have some cuddling. Time passes quickly and then he leaves.We do not go to caffees or pubs as he does not ask me. And I just wander whether he is serious towards me.He said he now is in difficult situation regarding finances and I think £3 for the buch of flowers is not much...
What do you think? Thank you for your answers!

Klai

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Old Aug 14, 2007, 11:55 AM   #2  
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Hi, please advice me as I completely got lost
...I am friends with a guy I really like. He says he feels same way towards me and we have really good time together just by talking about everything and time passes very quickly. we are friends one month only. The one thing is that I don't understand: he never takes me out or buys me flowers. Everytime he comes over to my place, I make dinner for him and then we sit talking, have some cuddling. Time passes quickly and then he leaves.We do not go to caffees or pubs as he does not ask me. And I just wander whether he is serious towards me.He said he now is in difficult situation regarding finances and I think £3 for the buch of flowers is not much...
What do you think? Thank you for your answers!

Klai
I think I would find out if he is married or not. Job?
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Depressed,

He says he earns very little and is separated..

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He says he earns very little and is separated..

Klai
ok-have you been to HIS place yet? I know he comes over to you, but do you go over to him?

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Hi Depressed,
Thank you for your ansvers, I verry appreciate!
Yes I was at his place and he is very keen for me to visit him again, but I don't want too often to be at his place. He made dinner and introduced me to his brother and his flatmate. we had a nice evening and I stayed overnight..In the morning he missed his work because of me and spent the whole day with me waiting for me to finnish my job. He is very kind and smart and gentle to me and thats the reason I would like to understand if he is so nice why he can't buy me simple flower or take me out for a dinner?..
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It might just not be in his nature to do those things. Or maybe his finances are really tight. Either way, it's nothing personal so don't let it bother you.

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Thanks guys, I feel releaved!
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hmmm, keeping you "behind closed doors" so to speak , sounds like a cheater to me. you'd better get to the bottom of this quick or you may be in for a bad heartbreak. check him out.
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hmmm, keeping you "behind closed doors" so to speak , sounds like a cheater to me. you'd better get to the bottom of this quick or you may be in for a bad heartbreak. check him out.

Hi, what do you mean?
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