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My boyfriends wife left him and we started seeing each other right after she left. Now she is acting crazy trying to kill herself and make threats that he wont see the kids anymore. We love each other very much. Should we continue our relationship or wait for them to divorce?
Wait for a divorce....married men WILL tell you ANYTHING possible to keep you as a mistress. Married guys literally end up with their mistress 3% of the time.
If it is right - wait for the divorce....other wise he IS using you.
I agree wait for the divorce, I hate to say it but everyone does have a point here. His true feelings will all be laid on the table if you wait until after the divorce. One of two things will happen if you do:1) He will leave his wife and go through the divorce or 2) He will want to try and work things out with her but still keep you around for you know"just in case"
I agree with the other comments. Guys hit on me every day, and most of them are cute successful single guys, but some of them are married. I would never get involve with a married man. As a woman you should take into consideration the wife's feelings. Keep in mind that some married men have lots of lines. They'll tell you that their wife has left them, or they haven't had sex with their wives for years. They will also try to convince you that they're trying to get a divorce from their wife, but they don't leave their wife's because getting a divorce and paying child support can be expensive for them. And there are married men who want their cake and eat it too, so they will go out and get a mistress. I think women who get involve with married men need to wise up and have some respect for themselves. There's so many single guys out there, find yourselves someone that is single and stay away from these married men.
Priscilla, you should be careful, this is a married man with kids. I understand that he told you that his wife has left him, but there are 2 sides to the story. There's probably a reason why his wife is acting hysterical and threatening to not let him see the kids. The last thing you want to do is get involve in a domestic feud between a husband and his wife. I suggest that you wait until he actually divorces his wife.
How do you even know each other so well, if you just started seeing him after his wife left? There must be a lot more to the story then your telling but it is better to wait for the divorce and everything finalized. If you truley love each other then waiting patiently for awhile will not hurt.
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