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Old Feb 22, 2008, 04:09 PM
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what should i do

is the sweetest boy i know.
i know i'm young but i love him with everything in me
i have only dated one person and he was notttt like my bf now.
he is everything i wanted in a guy and more
i'm still scared to talk about the whole "sex" thing with him
i get butterflies even when we just kiss.
neither of us push the issue
i don't want to rush things with us at all .
we were best friends for a year and then found out our feelings for each other
i have been so happy sense we started dating and i know he is too.
we dont get to see each other as much as we would like and it sucks!
and when we are tog its barley ever by ourselves
i think he is scared to hangout alone i don't know :/
and when we are tog he will just hold me and we will talk or kiss a little
he does the cutestttt things that makes me want him more and more
he isnt one to make the first move at all he has had a lot of girlfriends but they all break up with him after about 2 weeks because " he moves to slow"
i like the fact that he moves slow and is 18 and still a virgin
we have been dating for about 4 months now
the most we have done is kissed ,we are both still virgins which is a plus.
his friends say stuff to him about him "getting some" as in sex but he tells them to shut up.
they say stuff to him because the most he has done with a girl is kissed.
i want him to be my first im just scared and dont know how to approach it.
i know he wants it but i knowww he wont make the first move.
i told him i want the time to be right and we will know when it comes.

but i'm ready and still dont know when the right time will be tooo do it.
can someone help me , anyone who has had this problem or somthing like it?

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Old Feb 22, 2008, 04:14 PM   #2  
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I'd say wait until you're 18. I'm only guessing that you are not.

Enjoy being together at this stage. You don't have to feel rushed or pressured into anything. As far as him moving too slow with other girls, someone is talking way too much.
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Old Feb 22, 2008, 04:21 PM   #3  
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uhm...well i guess that you not even close to 18 yet huh ?

and he is 18 ..so if you guys have sex ..he might be in trouble(jail)

and he seem like a really great/nice guy ...and he really like you ...that why he doesnt rush about the sex thing..trust me ...guys always rush for that =p even the nicest guy i no....

so that a plus and you should be gracefull for that ^^ ..SO JUST ENJOY NOW AND HAVE FUN wait till the right time you both want to do it ^^
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Old Feb 22, 2008, 04:25 PM   #4  
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well i am 17 and he is 17 but he is turning 18 in augest
our parents are okay with the age.
and they really like him also
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Old Feb 22, 2008, 04:36 PM   #5  
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i see....well then it just really up to you and him....we are not some1 with magic or power to tell you that when should you or how should you guys do it ...it just up to you guys as a couple ....

you guys just have to have the feeling about it ...

the first time always the most special ..hell it the most importand....so jus think hard ok ? ^^ and have fun...it about being comfertable ...and enjoy
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thank you :]
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