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dating married guy for 4 years and who is now in divorce procedure
im 27 years old im currently dating a 43 year old we have been together for 4 years hes married in the begining of feburary i told his wife about us i could not take it anymore the excuxes the lies when i told her she laughed she did not belive me so i gave her a little insight about things i knew she hung up on me. that day she confronted him he denied it and told her he wanted a divorce she kicked him out he came to stay with me weve been living together for 2 mths and its been a roller coaster now he just turned around and got an apartment and said its the best while going through a divorce procedure i have had strong feelings about this and belive its not rt just another excuse if u ask me anyways he says things like it for the kids who i have been around many times , i dont want her (wife) parents to say anything with us living together or her 4 years of 7 abortions lies when it was convient for him now hes more in my life and he gets a apartment i know i should let go but how how can i tell him i want to end this i cant and every time i end it he follows me around to friends houses clubs my job hes a cop and looks into personal things in my life all the time he goes to the bank and gives them my information and they give him everythinh about my account what can i do. i ve keep ending it but i keep going back i dont know what i should do accept the apartment thing let him move out my house and stay or should i walk away
First Off I Hope You Don't Ever In Life Mees With Another Married Man. Thats Jus Wrong. Second The Apartment Thing Is Better For Him Because If He's Living With You While He's Going Through His Divorce That Won't Look Good For Him. It May Effect His Custody With His Kids. I Really Think You Should Just End It, He Sound Weird And He'll Probally Cheat On You Too.
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Well, aren't you just the special darling who calls up the wife to confront her with the truth? I am sure she appreciated your candidness. You mention her "sins" - 7 abortions in 4 years? Give me a break already. Who told you that? Her cheating husband? Oh, that is right, he is your married lover.
So now that you have had your four years of fooling around on his wife, he wants to move in with you. He needs another caretaker/mama figure. You got elected for the job you were so desiring before. Congratulations.
u should not judge me im not a homewrecker he searched me out i didnt go looking for him what goes around comes around is true but who is to judge because of a situation u in many things happen for reason the most at fault is the guy who searches the girl who falls for it and the abortions if u read right talking about me doing it because of his threats
people make mistakes but u cant always choose who u love things happen for certain reasons there is no excuse why people who are married cheat but their is always a reason behind it who knows if he will cheat on me no one will ever know all i can do is trust but i now at this point i dont now how to walk away i dont want to be judjed i just need advice but rember some people stay with a person like this because what they fill u head with. if u never been a situation as dating a married person how would u know what one goes trougth not all times are bad there are many times that are good too i just want to put it behind but i dont now how if u can give some advice then answer but dont judge me or say im a homewrecker because ive never been in this situatuion before all my other boyfriends were n married just help me try t walk away
Go get professional help to walk thru the process of dealing with why you fall for the lies of a cheater. you have many issue if you can't walk away from this controlling cheating lying stalker.
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