I think she likes me, but she turned me down.

asdfg88 · #1 Mar 24, 2008, 12:46 PM

I'm in the class with her since october,but i met her last week. Before that, i recognized some kind of signals.. (looking at me,smiling..)Last week i found out that we have a mutual friend.They were talking about music, and she discovered that we love the same bands.She mentioned a concert, one of the bands we both like.Two days after that,she texted my friend telling her the time and the date of concert, and telling her to "inform" me. I decided to meet her.I texted her,and we decided to go together on that concert.Tomorrow we met in school... she was very happy, and we had nice time talking.Two days after that,the D day came.She told me that she's going to invite some of her friends that would also go with us.We all went together, and she was veryyyy happy, and all the time was smiling, and was talking just with me.During the concert,i hugged her and held my hands around her waist several times,and that was ok with her.When the concert ended, i decided to tell her i like her. I did that, and she was very confused, and started to repeat - i don't know, i don't know, and things like...i'm not sure, we don't know each other well. I thought she'd be mad.. but we went home together, and on our way home, she talked to me, like nothing happened, and was still smiling... Tomorrow i texted her and told her that i'm sorry... yadda yadda... and she said something like, "there's no reason.. it was a very nice concert." Does she likes me? Did she turn me down because i asked her too early? What should i do?

Smoked · Mar 24, 2008, 01:06 PM

if you don't mind telling how old are you and your friend?

asdfg88 · Mar 24, 2008, 01:28 PM

Smoked · Mar 24, 2008, 01:38 PM

OK so strictly based on the information you have provided I would say she is probably shy? Take it slow, but not so slow she thinks your a buddy. (if you want a relationship) You both are young, so a lot of factors can come into play. Has either of you had a relationship before? Did she consider this "date" a date? Seems to be some mixed signals but based on what you said their is something. Hard to say what with out more info.

oh and man, don’t apologize for telling someone how you feel. also if she told you that you had no reason to apologize then she obviously wasn't upset.



At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you will be able to: Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+ topics. Accept money for answers that you provide. Communicate privately with other members (PM). See fewer ads. Sign Up!