yes i want to ask this girl out from work she's given her 2 weeks notice. I'm 20 and she is 16 an people at work say that is to young, and my friend said some stupid thing saying they have to be half your age plus 7. so i don't what i should do?

Jesushelper76

absolutely nothing. Do nothing. Your too old. She is too young. Maybe in another 2 or 4 years you might cross paths again, then think about dating. Right now. No.

Clough

I agree with the answer above. 16 to 20 is too much of a spread in ages and life experience.

Skrypt

28 dating a 24 is one thing
20 dating a 16 is another. Not going to happen.

rockerchick_682

It's more of where you both are in your lives right now, she's still in high school and you're graduated (and in college?) Too much of a difference

Shadow300

4 years is not a big difference, but you the above are right, maybe in a few years

touji-za-nai

too old, but i am having the same problem, im 16 she is 14.
i usually would say stay within 1 year of age when young but 2 is border line, so 4 is no.

BN61239

Don't listen to your friends. If you feel that it is meant to be ask her out. If she feels uncomfortable going out with a guy 4 years older than her then just shake it off and find someone new. Most marraiges are years apart. Most of the time 2-10 year differences. Ask her out, see what she says. Hope this helps.

BN61239

Adding to my previous message...I also do agree with others. Let her know that you like her and maybe in a few years when she is out of high school and you have your life planned out then you can see if she is still right for you. Get to be good friends first. Good luck.

lostinatrance

It all depends on if you both care about the age difference or not. I believe that age is just a number.