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    Mar 6, 2010, 08:02 AM
    Dating 101 - need advice on how often do you usually go out, talk, etc...
    Female who is all new to this dating thing, come from a past of being in relationships and never really done the dating thing. Question- when you start dating, how often should you be going out, talking - whether phone, text, email. Been reading lots books on signs he's into you... but it isn't all that clear when you start dating... do the same rules apply? Input welcome.
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    Mar 6, 2010, 08:54 AM

    You go at whatever pace you're comfortable with. There are no standard rules. Let things flow naturally.
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    Mar 7, 2010, 10:08 AM

    You date to have fun getting to know someone better, and you both have to figure out what the pace is.

    Too much, to soon, crash and burn.

    That means don't be in a rush just to have someone that you get carried away and become distracted by feelings that are strong and intense, and fail to see signs about their true character and nature.

    Keep in mind that in the beginning, everyone puts their best foot forward, and hides the negatives, so go slow at your own pace and keep your perspective of this stranger so your own feelings don't blind you.

    Talaniman Rule - Date them all, short, fat, skinny, or tall. 18- 80, blind cripple or crazy.

    Talaniman Rule- Doesn't matter how intense the feelings, or how much fun you have, never give your heart to someone you don't know well, and thats only after the lust has worn off for you both.

    Talaniman Rule- Never get involved with someone who has just been dumped.

    Talaniman Rule- never be in a hurry to give your heart to a stranger. Wait until they have proven they deserve it, and know what to do with it.

    Talaniman Rule- Enjoy getting to know someone, and keep it real.

    Talaniman Rule - Never ever get to close to a person that has a committed partner in their lives.

    Talaniman Rule- Never ever mess with any one who has just dumped their partner

    Talaniman Rule- Stay away from any one that has an ex involved in their lives.

    Talaniman Rules- Run, don't walk, away from any romance in the place that you are employed.

    Talaniman Rules-Never assume that your feelings are shared by any one else.

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