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Old Aug 1, 2009, 09:15 PM
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cheating boyfriend. what to do?

me and my boyfriend, ryan, have been going out for a year and a couple of months ... about a month ago i found a text in his phone from this girl called 'sexy alicia' saying "my lunch is at 1:30, is that ok with you?" (i looked through his phone cause he kept hiding it thinking it was a big joke)... i asked him about it and he said that nothing was going to happen with that girl and he didnt like her ... so a week before my birthday i was looking through his phone again (same reason) and i found a text TO the 'sexy alicia' girl saying "i want to *uck you till you scream" blah blah you get the idea.. i confronted him about this (with some yelling and screaming) and he said that he had kissed her on the lips during a game of spin the bottle at a party that i didnt go to, he also said that she started texting him so he just texted back and didnt mean any of it and that he was going to tell me but after my birthday cause he didnt want to wreck it... so.. we had a big fight and are now back together but i constantly want to go through his phone and im worried that he's going to do it again and do more than just a kiss... so am i being paranoid? what would you do?

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Old Aug 3, 2009, 09:44 AM   #11  
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this has got to be either a troll or a weird coincidence since her boyfriend wrote about this event a few days ago.. You have to wonder....do we have a troll?
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Old Aug 3, 2009, 09:46 AM   #12  
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funny thing is "she" is using his account

if this really is his girlfriend she needs her own account since it is in the rules of this site!

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Old Aug 5, 2009, 04:00 AM   #13  
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i have my own account!! i wrote this thing first... he started an account the other day to 'apologise' to me
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i have my own account!! i wrote this thing first... he started an account the other day to 'apologise' to me
nope 1 account and he posted first!
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nope 1 account and he posted first!
pretty sure this is my account and he only just started one... are you sure you dont need to go see an optometrist?
why do you care anyway? do you just sit on the computer all day and pretend that you have all the answers?
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Old Aug 6, 2009, 05:36 AM   #16  
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My situation: he cheated, cried said it was a kiss and just a little talking on the internet. Turns out he took her virginity, seen her 3 days a week while he was in college, and went out with her when he was supposed to be camping with his dad.

You have major signs here. Tell this loser to kiss your , that you can do better. You don't deserve this crap, no one does.

Good Luck!
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nope 1 account and he posted first!
You don't understand, he came here because he KNEW she would be looking for answers here. He is using us to help him apologize. She has been a member since 2006, him, the other day, when he got caught. HE is the one, he is the sneaky one.

She has been cheated on, she needs answers. Give her the help, and him the finger.
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