So this is the first time I've ever made a mistake like this, but i fear it has caused irreparable damage to our relationship.

What happened was; a female friend of ours was kicked out of her parents house and my girlfriend and I offered our couch to her. well sometime during the night after many many alcoholic beverages the girlfriend told the friend to join us in bed and we all kind of layed there and talked. eventually my girlfriend fell asleep and me and the other female continued to talk. i dont remember much of this night.

I remember my girlfriend asking me to put my hand on her heart and then writing in a text message on her phone that she did not send out to me "how did you like kissing another girl?" now i dont remember this and i know that is no excuse but we kept hanging out for a few days after that and i thought we were starting to get things straight, out of the blue about 3-4 days ago she gets in touch with me on AIM, while i am at work, and tells me she can't be with me right now and needs some time to her self. anything i say to her makes her angry and she has been spending a lot of time going out with friends and or family and she keeps telling me she loves me but we had plans to see one another and she just totally stopped responding in text messages untill this morning

She told me that she was on her way over and she got sick thinking about it =\
and was up with her mother all night. now my question is;

Is it over? her family hates me now (I had a great relationship with her family prior to this) and she can not even stand to see me. Granted it has only been one week. . . but i don't know what to do about the whole situation. there is nothing i can do to let her know how much i love her and that i would never knowingly hurt her but it is not making it easier for her to come see me.

any help would be greatly appreciated and i am ready for and accept all of the "you are an idiot" messages and will not respond with hateful reply's as i already know this.

debdoes

Are you sure you even kissed another girl?? You said you don't remember that, so maybe it was a setup? It's only been just over a week and she already has a new bf, I find that odd.... And you also said your girlfriend was in the middle of you 2, so you climbed over her?? I didn't read all of the answers so I may have missed something. I did read the line you wrote about if there is someone living in Maryland that could come punch you in the face....haha that made me laugh, something I would say!

rebeccastrean22

i agree with you I would never LET ANY OTHER CHICK IN MY BED WITH MY MAN WHEATHER I WAS THERE OR NOT