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    vickiebrooks123 Posts: 13, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 30, 2009, 05:17 PM
    I cant stop thinking about someone I slept with who has a girlfriend but he texts
    Hi,I slept with a man ,I liked and he has a girlfriend ,we are still in touch by text or phone calls it hasn't happened since yet I can't stop thinking about him, he has told her we are just friends and that he has my number in his phone just in case I text and she sees it, just I don't know what 2 make of it!! My heads all over the place?? Please help!! X
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    Dec 30, 2009, 05:38 PM

    Respect yourself. If he can treat his girlfriend like that by cheating on her with you, what chance do you have.
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    Dec 30, 2009, 05:46 PM

    Thanks for the advice!! Its much apreciated!
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    Dec 30, 2009, 05:47 PM

    The best advice I can think of is to leave him alone. Delete/block his phone number. Ignore texts and delete them.

    He is off-limits no matter what he seems to think and has done in the past. You are better off having NOTHING to do with him. Don't even give yourself a chance to think about a relationship with him. If he cheats on her, chances are very good that he will do it to any other woman he is with. You don't want to be the next one to be cheated on or a rebound relationship while he 'gets over' her.
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    Dec 30, 2009, 06:30 PM

    He's a cheater-avoid at all costs!
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    Jan 1, 2010, 09:39 PM

    Do you think helping him lie, and cheat is right??
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    Jan 3, 2010, 02:06 PM

    I don't think its right that's why I've told him where to go and at the minute and for the last 2 days I have felt awful, I'm sure his girl friend would feel worst if she found out and I hope she never does, as I would like to move on from this,
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    Jan 3, 2010, 02:20 PM

    Once you've told him where to go you can move on as you will now-stay strong and take good care of yourself.
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    Jan 3, 2010, 04:05 PM

    Ignore him until he quits.

    A lot of cheaters think they can wear you down until you give in. Don't, but get a lot firmer with him, and threaten to call his g/f.
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    Jan 3, 2010, 05:22 PM

    He's already taken! Find a man all your own. He's a cheating dog - don't waste your time thinking about him. Go No Contact!!
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    Jan 3, 2010, 05:28 PM

    You should be "thinking" of him, thinking he is a jerk, thinking he is a cheat and thinking he is nothing but trouble.

    Let me see, he sleep with you but had a girlfriend and tells her you are just a friend. ( HUMM)

    So if you were his girlfriend, everytimme he said someone was jut a friend, what would you think about him??

    Stop texing, don't call and make better choices on someone to sleep with
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