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Aug 1, 2007, 10:05 AM
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My ex and I have hung out a few times since we have broken up. When we are together we act like we are dating. He is reluctant to get physical, but we always do. We don't have sex though! We have lots of fun like old times and I know he notices that! He always makes negative comments about us not getting back together. I told him I loved him and he didn't say it back. I asked him if he still loves me, and he said he did. He told me that he didn't want to tell me he loves me because he doesn't want me to think that means we will get back together. I don't understand why he changes plans with friends to hang out with me and will hold my hand, cuddle me, kiss me, and rub me, but doesn't want to get back together. I figure if he wasn't interested, he wouldn't see me at all!
We are hanging out this weekend and going to a wwe wrestling event! WWE is our thing! Anyways, is there any chance spending that time with him will make him change his mind or should I just move on?
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Aug 1, 2007, 10:11 AM
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#2
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Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Illinois
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| You can't make someone want to be with you or make them love you. It's all up to that person. |
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Aug 1, 2007, 10:11 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Canada!<3
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| He doesn't want to get back together, and making someone like you has been proven to fail (trust me). Just move on and appreciate that you have a good friend. | |
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Aug 1, 2007, 10:17 AM
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Originally Posted by cassie1189 My ex and I have hung out a few times since we have broken up. When we are together we act like we are dating. He is reluctant to get physical, but we always do. We don't have sex though! We have lots of fun like old times and I know he notices that! He always makes negative comments about us not getting back together. I told him I loved him and he didn't say it back. I asked him if he still loves me, and he said he did. He told me that he didn't want to tell me he loves me because he doesn't want me to think that means we will get back together. I don't understand why he changes plans with friends to hang out with me and will hold my hand, cuddle me, kiss me, and rub me, but doesn't want to get back together. I figure if he wasn't interested, he wouldn't see me at all!
We are hanging out this weekend and going to a wwe wrestling event! WWE is our thing! Anyways, is there any chance spending that time with him will make him change his mind or should I just move on? | Personallyyyy;
i dont think you should just move on.
life is just too short to not give something so close, all your effort.
if you and him have all those memories.
and are still technically close.
then what is there to lose?
its better to try to get him back as YOURS.
then to just watch it all fall apart.
because i believe, that YOUR hands could hold things up.
so hold things up..
and make him believe.
that things would be more than just beautiful this time.
even if it means losing in the end.
its better to try than to not know what you could have had.
you get what im saying?
but advice, isnt always the best thing.
the best thing is usually going with your gut and your heart;
at the same time.
believe in yourself.
and you can achieve anything <3 | |
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Aug 1, 2007, 11:01 AM
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| Just be friends but don't ruin it by getting too aggressive. IF he wants to get back together in the future, he will let you know. For now, don't make it worse for yourself by kissing, etc. He's having fun doing that with you, but he already told you he doesn't want to date again, so don't let him have those benefits when you can save it for a new bf.  | |
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Aug 1, 2007, 01:03 PM
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| Keep trying | |
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Aug 3, 2007, 04:02 PM
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| It is all up to him. Give it some more time, continue to hangout with him, but don't make it physical. Don't say you love him. If he loves you, he knows you love him and doesn't need to hear it. Just give him some time, and if he is still interested, he will come around. | |
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Aug 4, 2007, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted by cassie1189 My ex and I have hung out a few times since we have broken up. When we are together we act like we are dating. He is reluctant to get physical, but we always do. We don't have sex though! We have lots of fun like old times and I know he notices that! He always makes negative comments about us not getting back together. I told him I loved him and he didn't say it back. I asked him if he still loves me, and he said he did. He told me that he didn't want to tell me he loves me because he doesn't want me to think that means we will get back together. I don't understand why he changes plans with friends to hang out with me and will hold my hand, cuddle me, kiss me, and rub me, but doesn't want to get back together. I figure if he wasn't interested, he wouldn't see me at all!
We are hanging out this weekend and going to a wwe wrestling event! WWE is our thing! Anyways, is there any chance spending that time with him will make him change his mind or should I just move on? | the worst thing to do is chase someone makes them want u less | |
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