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Old Sep 16, 2009, 07:30 PM
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Boyfriend too protective?

Hello im 12 going on 13.and im going out with this awesome boy whos perfect for me!He loves me with all of my heart and would die without me.He even said he would..Anyways..When i hangout with my guy friends.he get SUPER jelous.and He said lemme guess what you did today..you hungout with those guysagain and he said he was gonna beat them up..i didnt even do anything with them.i just hungout with them.And on the other hand he can hangout with his girls as friends and i dont flip out on him?I dont know.I love him with all of my heart but if i cant hangout with guys but he ca..i dont think thats fair.and when i tell him that me gets all deppressed and then pissed..He said if i ever broke up with him he would have to die.he loves me sooo much and i do to but thats a major thing that i dont like about him.

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What? First of all, he has to love you with all his heart, not yours.

Second, he's 13, you're 12, if he's going to die without you then he should write his will now. You two won't end up together, you're young, too young to even date, but way too young to find your life mate. At your age you have no idea what real love is, trust me, I remember, I was your age once too, and no, even if you're really mature for your age, you're still not old enough to really know love.

He's showing his immaturity when he get's all upset because you "hang out" with other guys.

Have you given him a reason not to trust you? If not, then I can tell you right now you'll last a very short time. No trust, no relationship, that's just the way it is.

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I wish agrees: Good advice! Hopefully the OP understands what you said.
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Next time he brings it up let him know you're not his possession, he doesn't own you. If he doesn't trust you then he needs to get another GF. If he won't let you hang out with the guys but he hangs out with the girls then I'd tell him to walk.

Life's too short for jealous BF's, even if they love you soooo much.
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What? First of all, he has to love you with all his heart, not yours.

Second, he's 13, you're 12, if he's going to die without you then he should write his will now. You two won't end up together, you're young, too young to even date, but way too young to find your life mate. At your age you have no idea what real love is, trust me, I remember, I was your age once too, and no, even if you're really mature for your age, you're still not old enough to really know love.

He's showing his immaturity when he get's all upset because you "hang out" with other guys.

Have you given him a reason not to trust you? If not, then I can tell you right now you'll last a very short time. No trust, no relationship, that's just the way it is.

Good luck.
we are both 12?
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ok so dis is da deal...ur guy sounds jst like me but i have one condition wid my gf....she can hangout wid guys whom she trusts n guys who wnt pass on her mobile number to ada guys if she fites wid them over something....u knw wat ur bf wants 4 u to love him s much s he loves u..he said he will die if u left him, can u do da same? its easy to say i love u but its harder to demonstrate everyday....try 2 listen 2 him and his needs s well..its not everyday ur in love...he hangs out wid gals cos he knows he is not gonna cheat on u cos da only gal on his mind is u...can u say da same about urself..? da only solution is 2 4get abt evry1 else for a while..m not taking his side..m explaining 2 u dat u may never mind any1 else who will love s much s he does...
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ok so dis is da deal...ur guy sounds jst like me but i have one condition wid my gf....she can hangout wid guys whom she trusts n guys who wnt pass on her mobile number to ada guys if she fites wid them over something....u knw wat ur bf wants 4 u to love him s much s he loves u..he said he will die if u left him, can u do da same? its easy to say i love u but its harder to demonstrate everyday....try 2 listen 2 him and his needs s well..its not everyday ur in love...he hangs out wid gals cos he knows he is not gonna cheat on u cos da only gal on his mind is u...can u say da same about urself..? da only solution is 2 4get abt evry1 else for a while..m not taking his side..m explaining 2 u dat u may never mind any1 else who will love s much s he does...
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