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Old Jun 5, 2006, 08:55 AM
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my boyfriend said he notices good looking woman

I asked my boyfriend if he looks at other women and he replied "If there is a good looking woman walking on the street, I notice but that is it! does this mean that he checks girls out or something else?

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Old Jun 5, 2006, 08:59 AM   #2  
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Don't you ever notice a good looking man even if you are not checking him out sexually?

My hubby and I have a saying "Just because I am on a diet doesn't mean I can't read the menu."

Sometimes it is just hard to keep from noticing someone who is good looking. And from what I get about what he says, he is "just reading the menu"

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RickJ agrees: Right. Think nothing of it unless you suspect that he is doing more than just "noticing".
Myth agrees: I can't diet now... but i'm not going to sample the menu either
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Old Jun 5, 2006, 09:44 AM   #3  
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My hubby and I have a saying "Just because I am on a diet doesn't mean I can't read the menu.
Dang! I thought it was just because you are on a diet doesn't mean you can't nibble" OOOOPS!

I am all the time pointing out attractive women to my hubby..I'll say Oooh honey look at her, I wish I had her -_____( insert body part here )
He will say. nah I like yours better,, every time This way, he gets to look at other women(which is completely natural,) and I get a compliment.
Now if he starts pointing out hot guys to me I will be worried!!!!:P

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Myth agrees: I do the same with mine...lol... and then I tease him about it. We both laugh about it.
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It's all a matter of self-confidence. If you are forever doubting your own self-worth then you will see danger around every corner.

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Old Jun 5, 2006, 10:04 AM   #5  
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I bet you a million bucks (fake Money) that you look at other guys. You notice other guys. Most couples do not talk about it but you set yourself for a trap. Why would you ask that question? You should know he would look at other girls, and you should know that you will look at other guys. Here is the thing. Do you think there is a difference between looking and actually chasing down somebody. So just because you might find a guy attractive does that mean? Just because he may notice an attractive women does that mean? To many questions and believe me your borrowing trouble.

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heyy
i read both this post and ur last one. I have some advice- I just got out of a two year relationship with my ex. i was not the skinniest of girls, and i know what its like to compare yourself with the girls he might look at on tv or people you know he finds attractive. but u have to remember that you are with him- he could have chosen them, but he chose YOU! and by even showing that it hurts u, u r showing him that you dont find yourself good enough- so why should he? its hard to have confidence, expecially in a society that tells us we need to be stick thin and gorgeous- but its what is inside that matters most. as hard as it is you need to remember that he is looking, and not touching- and that you look at good looking guys as well ( im sure)- it means nothing to take a glance. but trust him, and try and show him that you think highly of yourself. i know its hard to think of your man looking at some other girl, i have felt that way too, but you need to know that its normal for people to look at others and that it in no way belittles what you look like or who you r. hope this helped!

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I'm not on a diet but I can only eat my wife's cooking
And since I don't cook she just keeps lookin'.
She can look till her eyes pop out
As long as I'm THE MAN she hollers about!

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TAL, I will have to remember that one!!!!!!!!
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Listen, we are all human beings at the end of the day.
Im married, been with my partner for a total of 8 years. I cant expect him not to notice any good looking women... i mean even i notice a good looking women.. same as i notice a good looking man.

As i always say to my man, and he laughs..
There is no harm in window shopping, right??!
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