I have been dating my boyfriend for four years, and we have lived together for one year. He makes a lot of money, and has always been financially responsible. He is very business-minded, and is always trying to come up with the most efficient way to make money. Recently, he and a friend of his have decided that a "genius" (their word) way to make money would be to own a strip club. I grew up in a household that was not necessarily religious, but quite spiritual and moral...I know that many people have no problem with strip clubs, but I don't care for them, personally. I have been to men and women strip clubs out of pure curiosity as to what goes on, and it is just something that I'd rather keep out of my life. I understand men like to go, and "just look don't touch" is probably the best case scenario that I could possibly ask for from a man. I have expressed this very openly with my boyfriend, but he has stressed to me that owning a strip club is a very real possibility in his mind. I know I couldn't handle it...just curious as to others' opinion on the topic...

CaptainRich

A couple of things come to mind on this subject.

First is... you've been in this relationship for a while now. But you don't appear to trust him. That's too bad.

Secondly, how and where he makes his paycheck shouldn't be a factor. What if he was a ( insert any of hundreds of different jobs here ) and made minimum wage...

I think unless he's given you a real reason to be concerned, you shouldn't worry or try tell him what he can or cannot do. If he's a true entrepreneur, he won't mix business with socializing.