i need him but how ?

shinyrose · #1 Mar 14, 2008, 04:31 PM

i was in love story and it's failed ..by the way i forgot him cause he is not the right one for me ,

any how i meet another guy , he is so nice and resemble my dreaming man, i admire him felling that he likes me also ,i know him from a month ago but i feel comfort and need to continue with him,

the problem that he didn't say anything refer to love or deep admiration just flirting words with reservedly manner eventhough he talkes with me more than an hour at phone everyday telling me all about himself and his life,

he likes my manner and style as he said but he is so reticent , i need your help to make him talk and falling in love with me

i don't know how to attract him , i need ideas or somthing like that to be the only one in his life as he told me about his previous relations with girls ....

FYI, i've 25 years and he has 29 years

Marriedguy · Mar 14, 2008, 04:57 PM

You cant make someone fall in love with you. If you could why would you? Be yourself and if he is not showing strong feelings toward you within a couple of months accept that it just may not happen.

shinyrose · Mar 14, 2008, 05:56 PM

i understand what you said well, and i don't want to force him for love

i just need to draw his attention cause he know alot of girls that makes him expert to know how to deal with female adding that i've just shocked from previous relation and i don't want to face any disappointed subject espesially my heart,

hope to understand me , i just want to know how to treat him and make things go in the right way cause he is sooooo reticent

Marriedguy · Mar 15, 2008, 10:55 AM

Shinyrose, so what you want to do is get him notice you meant? Reticent in what way? Give me an example.

shinyrose · Mar 15, 2008, 11:00 AM

sometimes , he starts to say flirt then turn back and switch to another subject i don't know why ...last week i saw him then he calls me telling u r nice i'll call u at night again

today i call him twice but he didn't reply then from a while he sent message says (sorry i'm so sad from one of my friends and i'll call u later )

i don't understand him really... and afraid from the future too

Marriedguy · Mar 15, 2008, 03:54 PM

I wont put all your stock in this relationship. Guys are normally straight forward and if they are interested in you they will keep contact. I mean if my best friend got by a bus as long as he was ok. I would be returning your calls and show interest.

Trend carefully

shinyrose · Mar 15, 2008, 04:01 PM

ok i'll trend with care but what's ur vision about treating him...

is it good to neglect him somehow or to insist in calling and talking more ..?

i'm not experit and need ur help to direct my way even in this stage

shinyrose · Mar 19, 2008, 09:26 AM

any reply !!???



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