I like this guy i work with and i told him that i liked him and he said that is cool. He asked me if i came up their just to see him and he said that is cool. He has a girl friend and i dont know if i should keep seeing this guy or if i should not beucase i really like this guy too. He also asked when the next time i would be able to come and see him. I want to know if we are seeing each other or if he is just playing me or if he is using me as a rebound?

N0help4u

You are not getting it at all!
SO what that he flirted with you and asked you to see him!
Say he dumps this other girl and goes with you are you going to accept him flirting with another girl and accept that she just had to see him because she wants to figure out where she stands with him and where and how you fit in the picture?

Put yourself in HER shoes and you are home alone waiting on him to come home while he is discussing his relationship with YOU to some other girls he is flirting with!
In the meantime he most likely told his gf he is out with the guys.

justcurious55

you said that you're gong to see him to see about where your "relationship" is going, basically. how is that not going after him?

talaniman

If he has a g/f he is a cheater, and your helping him cheat, and what makes it worse, the fact your still interested, in a cheater. Going to find out, is an excuse to swallow more of his gobble-de-goop lines, and put the blame on him. You should have told him, see ya later, when you found out about his g/f, whether it was true or not!

Trev123

It sounds like this guy may have some intrest in you. In saying this he may not be happy in his current relationship and possibly looking for a rebound. He is possibly trying to hook you so that he knows he will not be without someone. He may be scared weather he will admit it or not but he may be scared of being alone.