I am 20 and my breasts have been sagging since I was 18, when I lost a lot of weight. My boyfriend has for quite a long time been asking me(frequently) if I could get a breast lift done in the future. As of now I don't have the money but should I consider this in the future? Is he being reasonable? I know I look bad because of the drooping boobs but I don't feel comfortable with the idea of getting surgery done. I have told him this but I know he finds the boobs really unattractive and I suppose most other guys would find it a dealbreaker?
Who cares if they are sagging. So you lift them for him. He will find something else on you not good enough. What if your butt gets to big, what happens if your hair turns grey or falls out, what happens.... if he doesnt love how you are now then find someone who does. He is young. You will learn as you grow older life happens. Your body changes, babies are born, age, sickness or whatever it may be. Someone will love you for those changes and I can tell you it wont be him.
men on other forums have said that most men would be turned off
i want to tell you something,i have had 4 children and breast fed them all,i have stretch marks that look like a map on my body,i was also burned when i was younger,i was also once 17 stone and lost that weight...
last night i stood fully naked in full lighting and said to my boyfriend,are you ready for bed..
he did not puke at the sight of me,he did not cringe,he chased me up the stairs...
be confident in yourself it shines through,sexyness is a state of mind.
I dont have anything to add about getting them done... thats a personal choice.
However, if you do, I would wait until you have finished having kids. That is going to take a bit of a toll on the goodies and likely undo anything you have done now.
My wife wants to have hers done. I would love it if she did. But it wont change how I feel about her even one bit. But it will help her feel more confident in her appearance... and you cant put a price tag on that. In short - if he loves you he will love you no matter what.
if YOU do not want to do this, then you absolutely should not.
It's NOT a deal-breaker. MOST women's breasts are not that perky after a bit--and the bigger they are to start with, the less the likelihood that they'll stay perky.
Ask him if he's willing to have unnecessary surgery on his penis to please you. Bet the answer is not only "no", but "HELL, no!"
Bottom line: Do what makes YOU comfortable with your body. Any guy that decides that not having perfect boobs is a dealbreaker isn't worth having---because what happens if you get breast cancer and lose them both? Should you be worth less for not having perfect breasts THEN?
If he'd abandon you for that, then he's not worth you to start with.
If you're that self concious about it, Just try a nice push-up bra. It's better then cutting up your body just because a temporary boyfriend feels like it's un-attractive. Your breasts do not make you into a woman, you could have boobs the size of a walnut and you'd still be beautiful. What matters is how you feel about yourself. If you exude confidence and your wonderful personality, it will outshine anything that people would pick at on the outside. Really.
I would not consider it a turn off... but also not a turn on. Love has little to do with your breasts though and if its that much of an issue with him, he has bigger issues.
Honey, after weight fluctuation and having had a baby, my DDD breasts are no longer "perky" and require a good support bra to be where they're supposed to be.
My husband can't get enough of them.
Believe me--it's NOT about your boobs. It's about finding a guy who appreciates you for YOU.
You should, however, see a counselor about your insecurities---THOSE are a bigger turn-off for most people than sagging boobs would be.
I suppose not every guy would tell me that he's turned off, but it certainly would be a turn off though?
no guy worth being in your life would be turned off by something so trivial. in 10 or 20 years your breasts would start to sag anyway, if you have anything larger than a B cup. would you get the same procedure done again then to fix something that happens naturally over time.
would you get a nose job just to please a guy? it's the same concept.
men on other forums have said that most men would be turned off
Hello darkness:
The best piece of a$$ I ever had was from the ugliest girl I knew. Funny - after a while she didn't look so ugly.. In fact, she looked damn pretty. You need to find yourself a guy like me.
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