My Best friend says she loves me.
Asked Mar 15, 2009, 11:49 PM
One of my best friends just told me she loves me. I guess to some point I led her to that but my feelings for her changed. I had tried for about two years and she knew that I really loved her. I finally gave up after realizing I was wasting my time. She says she sorry it took her too long to realize she was falling in love with me.I don't want to loose her as a friend. She is the kind of person that is always there for me. She listens to me when I'm feeling low and just makes me feel better. She wants us to have no contact for a while. What should I do, or say. Please help me. I am desperate. She is sad and that is the last thing I ever wanted her to feel. She is very special to me. I did not know what to say after she said that. It reaaly hurt her.
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