Am so confused

LearningAsIGo · Mar 19, 2010, 09:55 AM

You need to separate yourself from her for a while. Since you don't want to be friends at this point and you're feeling rejected, there is no reason to see her on a consistent basis.

In time, you may want to have a friendship with her, but its only natural to want some distance after she turned you down for a romantic relationship. Just take a break and you'll move on in your own time.

Good luck

Mikelreal · Mar 19, 2010, 10:33 AM

!Thanks

but what should I do when she calls,because she kind of calls more than often this days(she even complained about my not calling her),or when I meet her in school....all what have been saying are from my brain,my heart doesn't want to let go at all...

I wish · Mar 19, 2010, 05:15 PM

If you stay friends with the false hope that she might like you one day, then you're setting yourself up for disappointment and a heartbreak.

But if you don't let the false hope hurt you, then go ahead and be friends.

dontknownuthin · Mar 19, 2010, 10:43 PM

Yeah, I think you need to trust your gut on this one - you don't want to be friends with her because you recognize that's not how you see her, it would be hard to act one way when you feel another, and she did kind of an immature thing telling her friends that you asked her out and she turned you down. I'd say, be friendly when you run into her but don't seek her out at all.

Mikelreal · Mar 19, 2010, 11:42 PM

Thanks guys, have decided not to ever call or text her again,if she calls fine(i don't want her to call anymore,its killing me..what should I do?),if she doesn't I will be ok,afteral am not the first guy she has turned down (she told me she isn't ready for any relationship some months back),she get asked out a lot,though this is my first time..

amicon · Mar 21, 2010, 12:39 AM

You don't take her calls,or if you do-polite but busy.

Mikelreal · Mar 21, 2010, 04:19 AM

Thanks

will do just that

I wish · Mar 21, 2010, 04:28 AM

If talking to her is tormenting you, the put a STOP to it.

Don't talk to her until your feelings for her have gone away.

talaniman · Mar 23, 2010, 12:51 PM

Leave her be, you got rejected so move on.

Am so confused

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