I have been separated from my husband for two years, and a month before I decided to call it quits, I fell in love with a married man, who is seventeen years older than me. The reason I decided to leave my husband was because he cheated on me throughout our marriage. I know that what I am doing is wrong, and every time I try to call it quits I somehow can't seem to do it. He tells me that he loves me, but he can't leave his wife because of his three grandsons. I somehow think that I am not the only one he is seeing, I was able to listen to his voicemail, and there was another woman leaving messages for him. When I approached him about this he claimed that she was a distant cousin, but check this out this supposedly distant cousin lives next door to him and his wife. He also tells me that he makes love to me more than his wife. (I find that hard to believe) Can you please give me some advice.