Age Difference

Theadamsfaction · Jul 10, 2007, 06:46 PM

I recently have been talking to a girl i work with a lot shes 16 (will b 17 in a few months) i just turned 22. Im friends with every one i work with and just started off that way with her till she broke up with her b/f and he went crazy saying he was going to kill her and stuff and harassing her so i steped in and defended her keeping him away from our work and staying there late at night making sure he didnt follow her home or anything. Well along with all this i kinda started liking her and everything and got really close through all these tough times. Is this too much of an age difference at this time or should i stay with her. Do this make me look like im just wanting sex dating someone that much younger? Cause thats what i hear but its not the case im still a virgin and waiting till i get married for that what should i do give me your opinions .

2496 · Sep 9, 2007, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by nauticalstar420

First off, you dont need to be coming at me like that. Second of all, maturity has a lot to do with it. He was as mature as his age, 18, and I was also as mature as an 18 year old, even when I was 14. And by the way, he was a senior, i was a freshman, not in eighth grade thank you. I was a year ahead of everyone my age. You may think that me being with an 18 year old when i was 14 is disgusting, but think about the fact that your boyfriend or whatever is 9 years older. When he was 18, you were 9, that is disgusting too, even though you werent dating at the time. If you care about age THAT much, you are ignorant.

i do not agree with that if your over 14 it is legal...
once you turn 15 you can date whatever age you like,, i do not belive age matters, it doesnt change who you are.

nauticalstar420 · Sep 9, 2007, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by 2496

i do not agree with that if your over 14 it is legal...
once you turn 15 you can date whatever age you like,, i do not belive age matters, it doesnt change who you are.

I never said it was legal.

2496 · Sep 9, 2007, 07:15 PM

you mean illegal.
because i didnt say you said it was legal
but im saying it is legal and for all means he should stay with this girl if he likes her.

nauticalstar420 · Sep 9, 2007, 07:17 PM

First of all, you made it sound like I said it was legal :

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i do not agree with that if your over 14 it is legal

Dating is legal, sex is not. I do not care to get into this argument again, for this thread is about 2 months old.

The OP hasnt even been online in 2 months, so it is a good chance he will never read this agian.

nauticalstar420 · Sep 9, 2007, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by J_9

Let us all understand that every locality has laws against what is legal and what is not, as well as what age is legal and what is not.

That is true, i'm a little "United States" minded sometimes.

If i had had sex with my boyfriend when I was 14, it would have been illegal. That is what I meant to clear things up. I dont believe that its legal to have sex at 14 anywhere in the US, but then again I could be wrong. Good thing I did not give it up to him.

Miss lovley · Sep 9, 2007, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by nauticalstar420

I am sorry you had to go through that, but it doesnt always end up that way. I have already been given enough crap over this thread, so i am just not going to speak my opinion of this topic anymore.

don't let the criticism of know it all people make you stop commenting on a topic you feel that your capable of commenting on

Miss lovley · Sep 9, 2007, 08:28 PM

sorrry i did not read all of the posts befor mine but

if they are not having sex THEN THEY ARE FINE

nauticalstar420 · Sep 9, 2007, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Miss lovley

don't let the criticism of know it all people make you stop commenting on a topic you feel that your capable of commenting on

No no she had every right to comment, it ok. I just dont like arguing over this issue.

Miss lovley · Sep 9, 2007, 08:41 PM

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Originally Posted by lamboleum

Well I'm 19 and my girl is 15. We are in true love now. She is very mature for her age and even looks older than she is. She knows what she wants in life and i respect her decisions. Regardless of this shaunta girl's rediculous comments i think if you are looking for love and not lust, go for it 100%. Of course i had problems with her dad (since her mom was a friend of my mom), but he knows my intentions are only to be with her and not 'in her' if you know what i mean. Love will overcome any obstacle it meets so use it to keep you two together. AGE DOES NOT MATTER!!!!! Let no one tell you otherwise. 6 years is kinda pushing it but God will keep you two together if you let him help out too. I say GO FOR IT DUDE.

yea your a lucky one but most guys your age are only looking at younger girls for SEX



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