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I recently have been talking to a girl i work with a lot shes 16 (will b 17 in a few months) i just turned 22. Im friends with every one i work with and just started off that way with her till she broke up with her b/f and he went crazy saying he was going to kill her and stuff and harassing her so i steped in and defended her keeping him away from our work and staying there late at night making sure he didnt follow her home or anything. Well along with all this i kinda started liking her and everything and got really close through all these tough times. Is this too much of an age difference at this time or should i stay with her. Do this make me look like im just wanting sex dating someone that much younger? Cause thats what i hear but its not the case im still a virgin and waiting till i get married for that what should i do give me your opinions .
I would tell my child to go for whatever they thought they could handle. No, age does not matter. And like I said, he wasnt out of school. And by the way, I never had a bedtime, or a curfew. I could handle myself and take care of myself and my mother could see that, therefore she didnt need to set these boundaries for me.
WELL THAT FINE I DIDNT SAY YOU WERENT MATURE... YOUR RIGHT I DONT KNOW YOU... I KNOW PLENTY OF 14 YEAR OLDS AND THEY ARE FAR FROM MATURE... AND YOU RIGHT HE DID STATE THAT HE WASNT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH HER WHICH IS FINE.. I SIMPLY SAID I DISAGREE WE ARE ENTITLED TO OUR OWN OPINION... AFTER I POSTED THAT ANSWER I WAS GOING TO LEAVE IT AT THE CUZ HE DID ASK FOR OUR OPINION.. SO I GAVE HIM MINE BUT WHEN YOU POSTED THE WHOLE 14 AND 18 YEAR OLD THING THAT THREW ME OFF.. OK GOOD YOU DIDNT HAVE A BEDTIME OR A CURFEW YOU WERE ONE OF THE FEW 14 YEAR OLDS THAT DIDNT... BUT THATS HIS CHOICE HE CAN DO WHAT HE WANTS TO DO.... I JUST DISAGREE.....
WELL THAT FINE I DIDNT SAY YOU WERENT MATURE... YOUR RIGHT I DONT KNOW YOU... I KNOW PLENTY OF 14 YEAR OLDS AND THEY ARE FAR FROM MATURE... AND YOU RIGHT HE DID STATE THAT HE WASNT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH HER WHICH IS FINE.. I SIMPLY SAID I DISAGREE WE ARE ENTITLED TO OUR OWN OPINION... AFTER I POSTED THAT ANSWER I WAS GOING TO LEAVE IT AT THE CUZ HE DID ASK FOR OUR OPINION.. SO I GAVE HIM MINE BUT WHEN YOU POSTED THE WHOLE 14 AND 18 YEAR OLD THING THAT THREW ME OFF.. OK GOOD YOU DIDNT HAVE A BEDTIME OR A CURFEW YOU WERE ONE OF THE FEW 14 YEAR OLDS THAT DIDNT... BUT THATS HIS CHOICE HE CAN DO WHAT HE WANTS TO DO.... I JUST DISAGREE.....
Thats fine, you can disagree. I disagree with you. Its called being entitled to your own opinion.
Well, I would admit that 90% of girls under 16 are immature. But kids these days are growing up a lot faster.
Plus, there are a lot of societies that consider kids as young as 15 to be full-blown adults. In Mexico, girls are considered women at 16 and, since a lot of them are put in positions where they have to take on several of their mothers' responsibilities, really do mature a lot faster than American women. At least, that's been my experience...
WELL WE ARENT IN MEXICO ARE WE??? MATURE AT 14... DONT GET ME WRONG MAYBE 5% ARE MATURE AT 14 BUT THE OTHER 95% ARENT...
First off, you dont need to be coming at me like that. Second of all, maturity has a lot to do with it. He was as mature as his age, 18, and I was also as mature as an 18 year old, even when I was 14. And by the way, he was a senior, i was a freshman, not in eighth grade thank you. I was a year ahead of everyone my age. You may think that me being with an 18 year old when i was 14 is disgusting, but think about the fact that your boyfriend or whatever is 9 years older. When he was 18, you were 9, that is disgusting too, even though you werent dating at the time. If you care about age THAT much, you are ignorant.
WE WERENT DATING WHEN I WASD 9 AND HE WAS 18.... IM AM AND WAS LEGAL WHEN WE STARTED DATING.... WHATS IGNORANT (THATS NOT EVEN IGNORANT ITS DISGUSTING) IS A 18 YEAR OLD TRYING TO DATE A 14 YEAR OLD....
BUT AGAIN WE ARE ENTITLED TO OUR OWN OPINION./.... I PUT MINE OUT THERE IF YOU DONT LIKE IT THATS FINE....
WELL WE ARENT IN MEXICO ARE WE??? MATURE AT 14... DONT GET ME WRONG MAYBE 5% ARE MATURE AT 14 BUT THE OTHER 95% ARENT...
I am, in spirit...
Well I'm not about to start dating 16 year olds so I don't care... but I do contend that age is just a number. A person's true maturity is what counts, and there are tons of girls who are 18 that act like they're 12 so their age doesn't mean sh!t.
Well I'm not about to start dating 16 year olds so I don't care... but I do contend that age is just a number. A person's true maturity is what counts, and there are tons of girls who are 18 that act like they're 12 so their age doesn't mean sh!t.
YOUR RIGHT....THERE ARE 18 YEAR OLDS THAT ACT 12 BUT...THEY ARE 18 NOT 12.... WHETHER THEY HAVE SEX OR NOT.....WHICH CLEARLY HE STATED HE WASNT GOING TO... ITS NOT RIGHT....
Life Experience, Shared Values And Common Beliefs Are The Cornerstones Of A Good Solid Relationship And In Cases Of High School Aged Kids Dating Independent Adults These Essential Ingredients Are All Too Often Missing..
YO... first of all..ur not too old. my sis got married at the age of 16 and her first kid at 17. not even legal yet... and her husdand was like in his 20's. if she's ready for love...wait till ur ready and till she's legal...okay?
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