hi my name is christina giovanazzi and im 16 years old ive been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years . the very first week i started dating him he told me he loves me ,
3 monthes later we had sex.
now he makes me do it all the time , we get in fights about it and sometimes he hits me if i dont . also everyday all day long he makes fun of me and call me names or pretends to hurt me . sometimes it gets so bad i start crying really bad in front of everyone
im always imbarased to b around him . also he wont let me hang out with my friends, talk to guyz ,see my family or wear jeans ! is my boyfriend abusive and what should i do??please help me!!
What should you do? Run as fast as you can away from this horrible excuse for a man and never look back.
This is a very dangerous and volitle monster. What you are experiencing now is only the the beginning if you continue to stay with him. He is manipulating you, torturing you, and abusing you. In the end it is possible that he could kill you.
If you don't live with your parents, you need to get back home and get a restraining order against this monster immediately before it gets worse.
This is a vicious cycle that sometimes does not have a happy ending.
Please get as far away from him as fast as you can.
yes he is abusive!! i was in an abusive relationship when I was 16 and he did exactly the same things to me as your boyfriend is doing to u!! i was not allowed to go out to town with my friends,cudnt spk 2 boys, certain friends i cudnt speak 2 cuz he didnt like them, i wasnt allowed to wear yellow or my hair curly, he called me horrible names, pushed me, called my dad a wanker an thretened to kill me and i still stayed with him for a year and a half cuz i was soo in love. In the end I had 2 move away for a few months 2 get away from him, i went to spain!! I do think the best thing to do is get him out of your life. I look back now and think wat the fuk was i doin and I see him down the pub and jus laugh at him hes sooo pathetic, treating a girl the way he did!!! It might not be easy but ur better off without him! he'l probally beg for u to get back with him if u finish and promise he'l change but they never do!! hope u sort it, u dont deserve to be treated like dirt!!! take care!!! xxx
Sweetie, you need hugs not bruises. Surround yourself with supportive, strong people and in a year or so you will be looking back and THANKING this man for making you strong enough to walk out and live a better life.
Oh, and hun... don't post your real name on online bulletin boards. You need to learn how to keep YOU safe!
You are sixteen years old and you have your whole life ahead of you. This guy is a loser and not worth the dirt on your shoes. You have to believe that you are worth more than this. People treat us how we allow them to treat us. If you expect love, respect, kindness, friendship....then you will receive it.
LEAVE this relationship. You can do better than him.
Every word you posted points to abuse -- He damands sex? Its YOUR danm body YOUR problem if you get impregnated Or a STD.
MOVE ON
Now heres the hitch [There is always at least 1 ] Your used to being abused and abusers can spot the kind of girl that are the prey they are after -- the weak and insecure.
Before you start dating again you will be needing a backbone-- Always remember that its your damn body/mind and let no one else think otherwise -- Savage
These guys are all right. He is an abusive b******. Get rid of him for your own safety. Call the police, he's breaking the law. I hope things work out for you.
First of just a bit of advice about advice boards and websites like this. Never ever ever use your full name. Unless the reason you did is you want somebody else to call the cops and somebody could use your full name. It is not wise or safe to use your full name.
Second, this abusive son of a Bit$# needs a good beating himself and you need to get the cops involved. Charge the sob and make sure he has no way of finding you. Restraining order is a must here.
Third, where are your parents in all of this? Time to get your parents involved if they are in the picture. They need to know what is going on.
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