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    chazz149 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 26, 2008, 06:46 AM
    2 weeks together and now he ignores me.why?
    I have a question and it is about this guy I have been dating for over 2 weeks now,we got along so great at first but then I invited him to my best friend's birthday party and then the day after he sent me a text asking if we could just be really good friends. I did not reply because I was crying... then 15 min later he sends me a text saying that it was just a joke... then the day after I did not hear from him so I texted him myself... but he was quite cranky and barely said eneything,
    I am sooo scared because I really love him and he means a lot to me... I am worried that maybe he said that it was a joke just to make me feel better or something... What am I supposed to do?
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    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
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    Jul 26, 2008, 07:27 AM
    He doesn't sound like he is worth bothering with
    Two weeks is not enough to know you love him. So far he has only let you see the side of him that he wants you to see. Maybe he saw a girl at your best friends birthday party that he thought he might have a chance with.
    Even adults fall into the trap of falling for a guy then finding out what he is all about.
    You need to separate your emotions from reality and figure out what it is about HIM that are fact that you love rather than letting your emotions run wild over him.
    If he doesn't want to be with you count it as a blessing in disguise that you found out this early rather than down the road after you found out what he was really like.
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    Jul 27, 2008, 10:11 PM
    It seems that he lost interest. I'm sorrie, hun. We aren't trying to suppress your feelings for him... but it was 2 weeks. What you felt was lust, the excitement of meeting someone who is really good to the eye... Meaning, you haven't really seen his true colors... and flaws. With that, it still hurts to feel rejected. But believe me, this won't be the last time you will feel ANY of these feelings... There are MANY more fish in the sea... and you will find that true love. Till then, keep pluggin away! Good luck!
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    Jul 28, 2008, 02:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by chazz149
    I have a question and it is about this guy i have been dating for over 2 weeks now,we got along so great at first but then i invited him to my best friend's birthday party and then the day after he sent me a text asking if we could just be really good friends. I did not reply back coz i was crying...then 15 min later he sends me a text saying that it was just a joke...then the day after i did not hear from him so i texted him myself...but he was quite cranky and barely said eneything,
    I am sooo scared coz i really love him and he means alot to me...I am worried that maybe he said that it was a joke just to make me feel better or somthing...What am i supposed to do?!?!?!?!?!?!!?:( :confused: :(
    You love him after 2 weeks? You will get over it hes not worth it! Ignore him for a little bit then trust me he will try to come back then u just keep ignoring him!:)
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    Aug 1, 2008, 12:43 PM
    Youv'e only been dating for 2 weeks and this is how he is being then I see nothing good coming from it. Trust me let it go, if he is ignoring you you deserve so much better then.
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    Aug 1, 2008, 12:50 PM
    I would add that what you should do is value yourself more. You are worth so much and you deserve so much more than the games. I agree with brazilia... two can play that game, if you feel like playing games. Play them way better than him.
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    Aug 1, 2008, 06:52 PM
    You have only been dating him 2 weeks and you are in love? Hun, it's IMPOSSIBLE to be in love after only 2 weeks. Love takes months/years to develop. Time to tell him to take a hike.

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