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Old May 12, 2008, 08:50 AM
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friends dont get it.
how can i explain to my friend that dating a 17 year old sophmore, who just got out of jail, and has cheated on her multiple times....... (she also has only met him 3 times....he lives 30 min away) that hes not a good person to be with? he treats her like crap...then she gets upset and hes all "i love you i love you..im sorry" on her?!
she thinks i just dont understand that he really is sorry...and i dont know what its like cause my boyfriend lives just across town..and can drive to see me..?!

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Old May 12, 2008, 10:05 AM   #2  
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hmmm sounds kinda like my friend. Well does she have a problem meeting guys.../ is this the first person whos actually noticed her becuz if so then she might be lost in the feeling of being wanted. Altho he may treat her like crap that might be the issue....but ill need more info lol
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Old May 12, 2008, 12:20 PM   #3  
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Sometimes our friends don't listen, and have to be smacked by reality. Be a friend, and keep a band-aid, or a crying towel handy.
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Old May 12, 2008, 12:48 PM   #4  
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Ask her how many times he's said sorry for his behaviour...if its more than once and he continues to do it, she has a seroius problem.

If it is more than once (and it sounds like it is) explain to her using an illustration. Say "you've seen him 3 times, he says he loves you and he keeps hurting you and saying sorry, and you keep taking him back. What if a friend kept hurting you, would you keep them as a friend? This guy is bad news and I don't want to see you hurt. You need to get rid of him regardless of what he says, he's not worth it."

She'll get over it, you sound really young. There will be lots of guys coming and going.
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ya.........ive tried so hard to explain it to her..but she claims its love so she wont listen.
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Then let her tumble and fall if she won't listen. She'll learn. We all have to.
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but what kind of friend would that make me?
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Old May 13, 2008, 11:38 AM   #8  
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ZigZag07
how can i explain to my friend that dating a 17 year old sophmore, who just got out of jail, and has cheated on her multiple times....... (she also has only met him 3 times....he lives 30 min away) that hes not a good person to be with? he treats her like crap...then she gets upset and hes all "i love you i love you..im sorry" on her?!
she thinks i just dont understand that he really is sorry...and i dont know what its like cause my boyfriend lives just across town..and can drive to see me..?!

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Dont tell her this persay but "OPen up your eye before you get hurt" i want to be a cop and people like that is why.
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Old May 13, 2008, 11:52 AM   #9  
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omg...... let her read what you just wrote and then let her read the answers.... if she still doesnt get it them you might just have to leave it...people learn the hard way.... thats just the way they are....
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Old May 13, 2008, 11:57 AM   #10  
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ya but i guess help is help huh
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