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| Originally Posted by codelle1 Please stop witH these crappy responses. The girl obviously has some sense and 13 is NOT too young to be dating. God, people expect young girls to stay naive little virgins...Wake Up! Chezzy, use ur head dont do anything ur not comfortable with, and if u do decide to do anything use protection. Stay smart and stay safe. Society shouldnt dictate who you are as an individual. Im 17, so I know what Im talking about with the whole age maturity thing. |
Oh boy, you are 17 so you know it all now. Give me a break! Did you read what Chezzy wrote. That she has ALREADY been taken advantage because she dated older guys!!! So she already wasn't smart and did things she wasn't comfortable with.
No one is dictating who someone is as an individual. But there are certain facts about the maturation process that people with REAL experience are aware of.
No we don't expect young girls to remain naive little virgins, but it would be nice if they did remain virgins at least until they became adults. I don't think that's too much to ask. As I've said many times, NO ONE should engage in sexual intercourse until they are prepared to have a child.
I do agre with you that 13 is not too young to START dating, but it should be in groups, not one on one. But it seems clear that Chezzy started before 13. And there is a certain value in letting children have a childhood. Dating involves a level of social interaction that many children are not ready for at 13.
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