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May 5, 2008, 01:34 PM
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im 13 and theres a guy that i really like and i know that he really likes me to, and i want to know if its even legal for me and him to date since he's 16, im allot more mature then most girls my age and i actually think logically, but if its illegal then that won't even matter right?
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May 10, 2008, 09:56 PM
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| plus, ive been through alot more than any normal 20 year old |
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May 11, 2008, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted by ChezzyBear my mom is a crack whore who i havn't seen since i was 4 and my dad works to much to care
and im not to young so dont say that.. thers no such thing as to young | Quote: |
Originally Posted by ChezzyBear plus, ive been through alot more than any normal 20 year old | I don't think you have a clue what a normal 20 yr old has gone through. But I do believe you have gone through a lot. I feel sorry for you that you don't have parents who care for you and who are robbing you of your childhood. Your involvement with boys at your young age is an obvious cry for the affection you aren't getting at home.
There certainly IS such a thing as too young. There is a reason why there is an age of majority. Children need to be given time to mature and learn how to deal with the realities of life. You obviously were robbed of that time and have grown up too soon. But I still think you have more growing up to do.
I would recommend talking with a school counselor to get a better idea of how a normal 13 yr old acts and how to deal with your dysfunctional family situation. | |
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May 12, 2008, 10:59 AM
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| whatever
me and him are over..
i have a girlfriend now who i love more than words can say | |
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May 12, 2008, 11:01 AM
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Pay to call ScottGem for advice ($.75/min) | I think the Troll avatar is appropriate here. | |
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May 12, 2008, 12:02 PM
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| I disagree with the person who said that 13 is to young to be thinking about dating, now days it's pretty much natural to see kids that young together and stuff.
I'm 16 but I know that even when I was 13 I thought about that kinda stuff as well.
if you like each other then go for it 
But I wouldnt get wrapped up in it to much, and a word of advice, dont move to fast. | |
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May 12, 2008, 01:00 PM
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plus, ive been through alot more than any normal 20 year old
| Sorry you have no one to guide you to doing the right thing. Whats sadder is you wont know how sad it is until your older. | |
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May 12, 2008, 02:59 PM
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| Anyone notice how only new members are agreeing with her? Think maybe she is answering herself? | |
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May 12, 2008, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted by MommyLeah Anyone notice how only new members are agreeing with her? Think maybe she is answering herself? | Nope, way different IPs.
this is typical, Kids find this place, see questions like this and want to stick it the adults who are giving advice that's logical, reasonable and from experience. So they give this advice from emotion and inexperience. | |
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May 13, 2008, 02:59 PM
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| age doesnt matter if yous both like each other it shouldnt but 13 is kind of young to be thinking about dating. | |
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May 13, 2008, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by ChezzyBear im 13 and theres a guy that i really like and i know that he really likes me to, and i want to know if its even legal for me and him to date since he's 16, im allot more mature then most girls my age and i actually think logically, but if its illegal then that won't even matter right? | nothin is the matter you should be able to date him , as long as u lk him & he lks you go for it | |
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