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Old Dec 26, 2007, 06:57 PM
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if its in your hearts

To help this family
Help-a-mother: keep a family together - Online Petition
it would be good of all you fine folks -- now its time for me to crawl back under my rock -- peace to all --theSavage

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Old Jan 1, 2008, 08:56 PM   #31  
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Tomder55...keep checking TheJesusMyth for the clarification you and others so desire. I have it on good authority that the local media will be getting whiff of Luci's story soon. Then I expect to see your name on that petition, since proof is all you are really asking for.
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Just want to say that I'm not signing either...and Snopes explains it far better than I could WHY I'm not signing

Urban Legends Reference Pages: Internet Petitions

There is absolutely NO point to an internet petition. If you were standing outside my grocery store with an ACTUAL petition, one that was well-written and addressed to someone who could actually do something about it--I'd THINK about signing it.

A lawyer is far more likely to get results than a petition, and frankly--I don't want to give my personal information out to a bunch of strangers who could be wackos impersonating the real victims on the internet.

And for all YOU know, I'm Charles Manson and typing from prison--want THAT name on your petition? And even if I'm NOT Charles Manson, or Ted Bundy, or whoever---I can SIGN that way.

It's not that I don't think our justice system is whacked beyond belief, or think that our immigration system is perfect. I just don't think a petition does what the people circulating them think it will do.
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Old Jan 2, 2008, 02:35 AM   #33  
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I am honestly needing clarification on why I should remain loyal to a church that treats people the way that you are treating Luci and her family.
So far all I have done is ask for verification of the story . I have not "treated her family " one way or the other. It is your site that posted requests for donations to her paypal account. Had I been soliciting funds in such a manner I would expect to be asked to provide proof and accountability .

As for your questions about your faith ;Everyone should question the premise of their faith ;there is nothing wrong with that. Do you spend an equal amt. of time discussing it with the clergy as you do posting on an atheist site? Perhaps there is where you would find your answers. Don't ask me. I hardly consider myself either an expert or a good example .

Anyway ;my faith is irrelevent to the question at hand. I wish Luci all the luck in the world .But I will not be signing the petition. I have seen the NJ voter registration form and it clearly states in bold print that you can register to vote if:
YOU ARE A U.S.CITIZEN

There is also a declaration that asks you to swear or affirm that I am a US citizen.

The above declaration carries up to a $15,000 fine,and a possible imprisonment up to 5 years .However it doesn't say anything about deportation so perhaps that is something to hang a hat on.

http://www.nj.gov/oag/elections/form...b)10.18.07.pdf
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Tom, it looks like a veiled attempt to drive traffic to their site. I wouldn't bother.
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NK ;

I have been to their site before having been directed there by some atheists on another Q&A site. I believe the story to be true as far as it is told .Perhaps there is even a case to be made that it is an injustice in that the punishment doesn't fit the crime.

I have been on the net long enough to know however that not all that is said is true and it is not unreasonable to ask for beyond a doubt verification of the story . The fact that now my faith is being questioned because of the issues I raised only makes me more suspicious.

But I do note that in the last couple of days there is talk on the site to getting the story put out in a legitimate news outlet so perhaps I have contributed to their effort.
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tomder55~ I am sorry if you felt that I challenged your faith. Like I said, however, I am questioning everyone I meet in the hopes that someone will help me with my issues, and the fact that most (I am sorry if this isn't you) Christians are say and not do people, and since this is such an important issue to me I feel even more frustrated by that. Also, ironically enough, I spent 6 years in Catholic grade school and all of my college years in a private Catholic college. I kept getting different answers from the people that are supposed to know them and so I have now turned to you (again generally), the person of faith, to see if you can explain things to me. I am not being sarcastic about it...this has been a problem for me for about 11 years now and I have only been writing for this site for about 1.

I'm sorry. I know that I just posted, but if you go to TheJesusMyth and look under the post "To Be Deported for Voting" you will find, in the comment section, a whole list of congress men and women as well as senators and I think even a governor who are all helping in this situation. Emails, phone and fax numbers are given as well. Hopefully that will help verify this story as well for some of you.
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Sounds like a real paradise. Too bad he'll never be able to return to his home.
His home is South Africa. He was just a visitor in the USA. If he had obtained citizenship, THEN the USA would be his home.

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What you are saying is that you believe it is not worth your time or effort to ensure that victims of fraud are treated fairly, rather then separated from their families and sent half a world away.

What you are saying is that it is a better use of your time to type several hundred words condemning a mother for trying to keep her family together, than to add a signature to a petition.
Yup... that pretty much sums it up. I'm a big believer in "caveat emptor" and personal responsibility. It was Erhard's responsibility to know that he wasn't allowed to vote. He got bad advice? Let him ask someone better informed next time. He feels he got screwed? Let him sue the pollster that told him it was ok to vote. But none of that eliminates HIS primary responsibility.

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You say this like you somehow only have the ability to help either refugees or Erhard. Like somehow signing this petition will somehow prohibit you from giving aid and comfort to people who need it.
I say it as someone who only attaches his name to causes he believes in. I say it as someone who believes that ading my name to a cause that I don't believe in makes the use of my name weaker when it is needed. I say it as someone who believes that if my name is attached to every rinky-dink petition I see, then when something comes along that REALLY deserves my attention, someone reading the poll names will say "Oh, it's that guy, Elliot... he'll sign anything. Who cares what he thinks anyway." My name is an asset, and it is an asset with limited value. Overusing that asset wastes its value.

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You made an effort to write all that. You took time out of your day to write about the Van Vuurens, time that you could have spent writing about refugees and the horrible conditions they face. But you didn't do that, you wrote about the Van Vuurens.
I have written about the plight of refugees in the past. I have also written about those who claim to be "refugees" but aren't. I've written on a number of topics related to immigration, citizenship and deportation. I've written about them on various boards for over a decade... This time I wrote about the Van Vuurens. Your issue with that is...?

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What you are really saying is quite simple, just spit it out: You don't think Erhard deserves a second chance. You don't care that he may have been tricked, that he may be a victim of an overzealous political campaign. You don't care that election officials either ignored or blatantly disregarded voter registration and election rules.

But it's not just about "not caring" - no, you've taken it a step further - you've made an effort out of not caring. You've made an effort to denigrate her beliefs. You've made an effort to tell her that her family is not worth your time, not even worth your signature. You've made an effort to inform her that not only is her effort not worth your time, countering her effort IS an effective use.
Actually I don't believe that Erhard deserves my support... or anyone else's on this board. What his family does through the legal system is none of my concern.

But what I have a REAL problem with is trying to get a bunch of dupes who don't know the circumstances, the details, the facts of the case to sign a petition on behalf of someone they don't know... and then have a bunch of people come out of the woodwork from other sites to jump all over us when we call her on it or ask her for confirmation of the facts. I find it abusive, insulting and yes, I made it my business to make that position clear.

As for denigrating her beliefs, let's take a few of luci's quote's fom the Jesus Myth website:

"God is not the answer, it is the problem; "

"The absurdity of religion" (Title of an article)

"These babies have to grow up without the mother because of a verse in an ancient book full of mistakes?"

"The god of the Jehovah’s finds it preferable that a mother die and leave her children without a stable family than accept a blood transfusion. Always handy to know where a particular deities priorities lie."

"Is it ever possible to prove that religious are not hallucinations or delusions?"

"Jesus actually committed suicide"

"I just don’t believe the world is on the eve of destruction because a few people enjoy anal sex and women wear shorter garments over their legs these days."

"I don’t even want to bore you with the impossibilities of the above story of Adam and Eve, the inbreeding impossibilities and millions of other things wrong with this dim-witted story."

"What is the biggest lie ever told? I honestly think it’s that the world was made to believe there is a God. What can beat it?"

"And lo and behold, I got the boyfriend. A wonderful guy whose life ambition was to become a Dutch Reformed minister!! URGHH. I knew I would NEVER be able to be a minister’s wife, I wanted a life, not a damn congregation. "

You want to talk about denigrating people's beliefs, I suggest you look a little closer to home.

I also find it ridiculous that anyone would look for a miracle for their son while at the same time denying the existance of G-d. And make no mistake... that is exactly what the petition is: an attempt to create a miracle.

What do they say about atheists in a foxhole?

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The only crime was the vote, the swerving off the road. Voting was a reasonable and rational response to the information he had available to him: he was told he was permitted to vote by a person registering voters. This person would be considered a professional in the field of voter registration. This person should have been aware of the requirements to vote. This person was the kid in the road that Erhard swerved to miss. At least twice after that, "guardrails" to prevent him from voting failed due to the fault of contractors/election officials.
Erhard's crime was not "swerving", but rather "driving the car without a license"... in this case, voting when not being allowed to. Cops don't need a "second crime" to take action against an unlicensed driver who is caught behind the wheel. Erhard may have "driven" perfectly carefully, obeying all the "traffic laws"... except the one that says that you have to be licensed to drive. The fact that he's a good driver doesn't mitigate the fact that he was unlicensed.

Erhard voted when it was illegal for him to do so. Immigration officials called him on it and are considering deporting him. the fact that someone told him it was okay to do it, the fact that he wasn't stopped from doing it, doesn't make it legal. HE had the responsibility to know that he wasn't allowed to "get behind that wheel" and vote, even if someone else told him it was ok.

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NeedKarma-Honestly I hope that this information DOES send traffic to TheJesusMyth website because that is where all of Luci's information is on this issue as well as an article from Erhard himself. Not only that, but in the coming days that is where you will find the links to the news articles and interviews about this story.
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Sorry mate, not interested.
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Oh sorry. I thought you were interested since you keep coming back to this conversation to see what is going on.
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