My ex boyfriend owes me money. I sent him bill after bill after bill with no response. In my frustration I sent a few unsavory emails. He filed stalking charges and a restraining order and had them delivered to my work. He filed these charges where his vacation place is 3 hours away. He falsely accused me of many things. The judge ultimately dismissed the charges along with the restraining order was never granted. He has destroyed my reputation in my home town and my reputation as a real estate agent. I want to sue him for defamation but I cannot show money damages. I would like to file a case against him for falsely accusing me and using the court system to hurt me.