| As to the morality lesson, if you ask a question that involves morality, that's what you are going to get. Obviously we don't know you or him, so you are better able to judge. However, its does appear fishy to us and causes us concern for you. Frankly, if you are more mature than a 21 yr old, that doesn't speak well for your relationship either.
If you want to ignore our advice and concern, feel free. But don't complain about getting it. |