[Mommyof09]

I want to say different things to my boyfriend in his ear to get him arroused but I don't know what new things to say. Any ideas?

[Synnen]

Nope.

Only YOU know your boyfriend.

Any script we give you is going to sound cheesy and contrived.

Tell him what you want to do to him, or what you want him to do to you. What's so hard about that?

If you want it to get freaky, I suggest watching porn for ideas.

[mudweiser]

Well best thing for you to do is practice alone, seriously, if you can't tell yourself then you won't be able to tell him things.

Good luck!

[Cat1864]

I am still waiting for you to answer the question of how old you are from your question about 'squirting'.

Edit to add: Though from the way Fr_Chuck closed that thread, I surmise that you had some posts removed. So one of them MAY have had where you said how old you are. Please give your age (again).

[mudweiser]

I am still waiting for you to answer the question of how old you are from your question about 'squirting'.

Well her userID is mommyof09?

I'm sure once you have a child there is no more censoring. At least that's what I think...

Well that's just a hunch of mine.

[Cat1864]

Well her userID is mommyof09?

I'm sure once you have a child there is no more censoring. At least that's what I think....

Well that's just a hunch of mine.

Muddy, if she is under 18, then the site can get into trouble if she exposed to 'adult' material.

Personally, I don't care where she gets the information, however, some site rules are there for a very good reason.

[mudweiser]

Muddy, if she is under 18, then the site can get into trouble if she exposed to 'adult' material.

Personally, I don't care where she gets the information, however, some site rules are there for a very good reason.

EEPS! I'm fixing my answer I don't want to get the site into any trouble!

Hopefully the OP returns...

[Synnen]

She states she's 18 in a deleted thread.

Not sure if I believe her, but it's there on record that she's representing herself as an adult.

Either way, I don't like giving specific examples to this question. It weirds me out, and makes the question seem more like online pornography than getting advice about adult sexuality.

[excon]

I want to say different things to my boyfriend in his ear to get him arroused but i dont know what new things to say. any ideas??

Hello Mommy:

When my girlfriend says that she's got a delicious pot roast in the oven, I get a boner... But, that's just me.

excon

[Cat1864]

She states she's 18 in a deleted thread.

Not sure if I believe her, but it's there on record that she's representing herself as an adult.

Either way, I don't like giving specific examples to this question. It weirds me out, and makes the question seem more like online pornography than getting advice about adult sexuality.

Thanks, Synnen. :)

I wasn't sure if she ever gave her age and with the way she writes I was not taking any chances.

Mommy09, if you rely on a script writer, then you are forgetting a major part of sex-you and how you should feel comfortable with what you are doing and saying. You are also missing an opportunity to have a conversation with him about turns him on.

Work on your communication skills with him by asking what he likes and telling him what you like. Find out what works for both of you.

[Mommyof09]

Actually for you all to know I'm 18 born nov 6 1991 your right I did have a baby so who cares about the age.

[Mommyof09]

I am 18 didn't lie. But since this site is so over the edge about ages and no one believes ill go to another site and tell everyone that they shouldn't come to this site.

[Synnen]

We're over the edge about ages in ADULT SEXUALITY.

It is AGAINST THE LAW to give information of this sort to a minor.

We open ourselves to lawsuits if we do not verify that you are an adult on an ADULT ONLY board.

You can, of course, do what you want. However--that shows OBVIOUS maturity on your part, which makes me absolutely SURE that you're an adult.

[Mommyof09]

I wouldn't actually do something like that I just don't like for people to say I'm lying about my age. I am a senior I attend Winnetonka high school I live on my own and I have a 2 1/2 month old. I don't know what to say to get anyone to believe me. I know why you are all over the edge I just didn't like that one person said they didn't believe me. Don't then if you don't want too I could careless and Ill just ask another site who will believe me. I was born on NOVEMBER 6th 1991... so I don't know what else to tell you... sorry

[Cat1864]

Did you read what I wrote or did you decide to get defensive about things we can't control like laws on child endangerment?

I hope that you and your child have a great future. Think about what you would want strangers telling your child in 15 years. I think about my 17 year old daughter every time I post on threads where I am concerned about the age of the poster.

I am concerned that you are here asking us for things to say to arouse your boyfriend instead of talking with him and finding out what he wants to hear.

I hope he is spending as much effort on how to make you happy as you are him. :)

[Mommyof09]

Your right and I'm not mad I unserstand BUT when my name is mommyof09 then you shouldn't get too upset. I said my birthday AND everyone was talking like she's lying... so never mind for the question and thank you! Have a good day

[Alty]

What does your username have to do with your age? Nothing. We didn't know that it meant you're 18. Just because you have a child doesn't mean you're over 18, sadly.

What you should try to remember is that we all volunteer on this site. Get defensive and argumentative and I doubt anyone will want to take the time to answer your questions.

We had to ask your age because we refuse to give sex advice to someone that's under age. Personally, if I had it my way, the age limit would be higher then 18.