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Old Jan 24, 2008, 03:29 PM
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Cops - love 'em or hate 'em

Hello:

In the world, there are two kinds of people. People who love cops, and people who've had a run in with them.

I'm interested in your opinion. When cops look out upon society, do they see citizens going about their business - or do they see law breakers that just haven't been caught yet?

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Old Jan 24, 2008, 03:36 PM   #2  
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excon I have had many feelings for cops.
When I was a younger woman I was smitten by the uniform. yummy. Yes, I dated a few cops
As a young mother dropping her kids off at school and parking in the wrong spot...I hated them.
As a aunt-in-law for a young Arabic man I learned that they could be quite prejudiced..he got a ticket for not having his dog in a seat belt, among other instances. Pretty lily white community that I live in..although it is beginning to change.

As a citizen where I live as an adult, I really have respect for the police force esp. with some of the crazys that they have to deal with. Are all of them great? No. But by the same token not all are rotten either.

Oh, to answer your question I think for the most part they see citizens going about their daily business unless they are shown otherwise.*edit I guess I'm sitting on the fence, depending on the situation I could fall either way.

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Old Jan 25, 2008, 08:58 AM   #3  
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I have seen good cops some that go out of their way to cut people a break even when they really shouldn't. I can count them on my fingers, but I appreciate them for being an example of what cops SHOULD be.

and I have seen cops that have a scum of the earth attitude towards others and I have seen cops that think they are above the law and treat people like they are criminals.
I think it is getting worse because the newer cops seem to have a chip on their shoulder and think they have to act the way they do in order to prove their self.
Like I have said before I have heard of cops slamming kids having asthma attacks on the floor and elderly with health conditions against the wall and they were innocent bystanders

I have also seen cops get away with murder because of who they are

Sgt. Vojtas' return to Brentwood streets is a crime Voitas *killing* of Steelers Ray Seals cousin Johnny Gammage and Voitas' fiancee *supposed suicide 2 years before.

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Old Jan 26, 2008, 05:08 PM   #4  
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I've had many friends who were cops. DEA agents, FBI agents, US Marshals, State Troopers, County Deputies and city cops. My uncle was the Chief of Police. My father in law was a US Federal Marshal in charge of 7 states. My husband worked for "the company". It all depends on just how burnt out the officer is what his attitude towards society is. I've had hardnosed cops come to my door that have the amazing ability to see through walls and around corners falsely accusing my family of wrongdoing. I've been stopped going 96 MPH and given a verbal warning by a Fla Trooper. I've seen a lot of jerks wear a uniform. I've seen many men and women cry when in uniform. Sometimes the job just gets to them and they either quit and go on doing something else or they become jaded and mean and remain on the force.

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Old Jan 31, 2008, 05:20 AM   #5  
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I had my far share of working with cops in my line of work. I have worked with the police in NorFolk, Va US. I have worked with a few in NB, Canada as well. I will say that I have never seen cops be judge mental to any normal person doing there normal things. but I will add that when you are costing a place and you noticed others going to that location you start to wonder. Plus you always have to have your guard up. It comes with the training.
Don't get me wrong when I was a kid I did a few things I am ashamed to adamite and at that time I always thought cops where just looking for an excuse to bother you.
What I am hinting at is they look at people as normal people just going at there normal day.
This is a good question I would like to see more replies on this matter.

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Old Jan 31, 2008, 05:54 AM   #6  
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"Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely" police officers are human and I believe that saying applies. It may be small corruption, like taking care of their Grandma's parking ticket, or taking care of drug dealers for a price. It's still corruption.

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Old Feb 9, 2008, 09:50 AM   #7  
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for the record id like to state that ive been arrested 5 times and dislike cops in general. that being said this is my opinion on the topic. some cops are very respectful, even when they have you cuffed in the back of their squad car. they act like just about anyone else you could meet, they are friendly and treat you with respect. Unfortunately, cops like that are few and far between. what is even more unfortunate is that people in general like that in this world are few and far between. I dont think its being a cop that makes some cops such unpleasant individuals. its being a human that does that.

oh but i found out this neat magic trick to quit getting arrested... i quit commiting crimes and havent seen a cell in a very long time!
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Old Feb 9, 2008, 10:01 AM   #8  
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1) I LOVE cops.....(and not for the uniform...). Whenever we had to call an ambulance for a loved one the police were right there to help. I have only witnessed good things and I consider myself lucky as I am not so closed minded to think there are bad apples in that group as well.

When I see the police partrolling the streets .....I think THANK YOU, and please continue to try and keep these streets safe and the roads free of those who had one too many.

When they see us? As long as we are doing nothing out of the ordianary, they probably don't even see us. I think there eyes are so trained to zero in on things going on that should not be.

Now with all that said, I have always told my husband, if I was ever pulled over...I think I would run the car right off the road from sheer nerves...not sure why that is...

But I am very grateful to them and when I see them I do feel safer. I wouldn't want their job for nothing.
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Ok, I live in wonderland, excon, and believe that the police are looking out for the better good of the community and look upon people as citizens they have sworn to protect. On the average, that is. For the most part. That is....

Until you happen to be one of the unfortunate who have had a run-in with the law and become the target for every piece of dirt that happens. That happened to my oldest brother. Now I know he had his share of scrapes and deserved jail time (he sold drugs and bought booze for minors, as well as DUI). But the police came after him for everything that happened, no matter. Once they went to arrest him for a robbery of the local Greyhound depot (in my hometown). A witness even said it was my brother. Funny thing, he was 135 miles away, visiting his sister (me) and my husband and brand new son. He had come down that Thursday evening and stayed until Sunday after dinner. The robbery took place on a Friday night at 9:30 p.m. As Sgt. Schulz used to say, "I wasn't thereeeeeee." And he wasn't.

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Allheart agrees: That had to be awful to go through. Bad enough he fell on hard times you don't need anyone wrongly making it worse. I feel for you and your brother.
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Old Feb 9, 2008, 10:07 AM   #10  
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if a tree falls in the woods on shcrodengers cat and no one is around to observe it, is the cat alive or dead?
Interinfinity two things, 1 who is shcrodengers? 2. congrats on staying out of trouble.

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