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hi there is something really bothering me the last few weeks.im living in a fairly quiet area for the last 2 years with my fiance and 3 kids.my fiance grew up in this area and has lived there all her life.a couple of months ago she told me a story of a young boy who she knew and played with as kids was molested by a man who lived on the road.the man did time in prison for it and that poor family ended up having to move over the whole thing.this happened over 15 years ago,heres the thing the house were it happened has been put up for sale as the mother of the offender passed away,but who shows up and is staying there till the house is sold only the offender,hes been there the last few weeks now and im dreading to say i feel hes going to do it again as there are a lot of kids about and for some reason play near his house.its like a magnet when the kids are there he comes straight out of the house to talk to them.i think he knows im watching him as i give him dirty looks and think out loud and curse him.theres a lot of new familys on the street and wouldnt be aware of what he did.what should i do,say something to him and let him know i know ,say to the childrens parents or call the police as i think hes a ticking time bomb,any advice would help as its playing on my mind alot thanks in advance for your help.
he may have requirements to stay a certain distance from children. And you may even be able to get a protection order if he is comming up to your property.
In your state or jurisdiction you either HAVE or don't HAVE sex offender registries. I would highly doubt you do. It seems to be an invention of the US. Therefore, this guy doesn't appear to be breaking ANY laws....
I dunno how much you want to get involved. It seems like you do.... But, be forewarned, there will be consequences if you stick your nose in... I dunno why you think he's a time bomb. What would be your credentials for making that sort of determination??? Just making it up, huh??? Probably....
But, you may be right.. I dunno. Who can tell what's going on in another mans head??? I certainly can't. Maybe he IS dangerous, and you'll be saving some kid from a real nightmare... Or maybe he's not, and you'll be causing an innocent guy a WHOLE lot of trouble....
A large percent of the time sex offenders repeat the act. It is there sexual preference or what i call sick disease. The guy might of served his time, but that doesn't mean he is healed. You can't turn a gay man straight, I would say the same applies here. Save the kids, inform the parents who can educate their kids to be wary of not only this guy but the millions of others just like him. Because they creep everywhere among us, the grocery store, the park, the mall...you never know, and don't stick around to find out. You may regret not saying anything when you knew all along....
A large percent of the time sex offenders repeat the act. It is there sexual preference or what i call sick disease. The guy might of served his time, but that doesn't mean he is healed. You can't turn a gay man straight, I would say the same applies here. Save the kids, inform the parents who can educate their kids to be wary of not only this guy but the millions of others just like him. Because they creep everywhere among us, the grocery store, the park, the mall...you never know, and don't stick around to find out. You may regret not saying anything when you knew all along....
your right what your saying.i have told a number of parent the last few days when bumping into them when bringing my kids to school,they were shocked to hear it and all said they,ll keep their kids well away from his house.the icing on the cake was the other day i could have sworn i seen him taking a photo of a boy only about 6 years of age on his mobile phone as he was talking to him,i felt like going over a punching him but i,ll be arreasted then as you said yourself telling the parents of his doings is the best way to go about it and to let them deal with it their way.
first he may be different then he was before, people change. however this does sound suspious maybe he means to do harm or maybe he does, i'd say wait for now tell your kids to avoid that place and if you see sometinge weird tell the other kids parents. and if your mamma gut feeling is ringing off the hook, notify the police but stay calm.
first he may be different then he was before, people change. however this does sound suspious maybe he means to do harm or maybe he does, i'd say wait for now tell your kids to avoid that place and if you see sometinge weird tell the other kids parents. and if your mamma gut feeling is ringing off the hook, notify the police but stay calm.
thank you too for replying i know people can change but more often they dont especially his type.to be honest i think he knows i know of his past as i give him dirty looks and say bad things about him under my breath and he still stands in his garden talking to kids.2 mins before i came on here he is at it again.the other day he was taking a photo of a child on his phone the sick ****er,im just going to tell all the parents about him at least then i can say if anything happens i tried to prevent it.
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO. One of the things you can't get back in this world is your innocence. Please let your local authorities know of what you know and what you have witnessed. The fact that he has offended in the past is enough to make the difference. Do not trust him or other parents to protect their children. I can't say this man is bad, however, people that have this illness are very good at what they do. They know how to make the children feel comfortable and then it is too late. All it takes is one minute. If a man can molest a child in the next aisle at a walmart with the mother one aisle over what could this man do given five minutes. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Say the future of every other child that may come in his path or the path of his next victim should he be given the opportunity to succeed at his sick quest. You are responsible for stopping it because you are fully aware. Call your police. Tell them what you know and what you have witnessed. I can't stress it enough. Take it seriously, telling the parents is not enough. PLEASE I BEG OF YOU.
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