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starbond · Mar 14, 2011, 09:41 AM

Hi.I am 34 years old divorsed guy.I am having relation with a married lady aged 32years.she is staying with her husband and 2kids.her husband was away from her for almost one year.that time we came close and we had a relation like husband and wife.Both we used to take care of each others immotional,love,physical and daily needs.if some unknown person sees us he difinately would have thought that we are husband wife.but 4 months before her husband came back and now everything has changed.she has changed allot and now often she is avoiding me.she tries to show me that she wants to be loyal to her husband and she wants to keep love and physical relation only with him.its like she has thrown me out of her life suddenly.I cannot live without her and now I cannot get her also.for me always she is my wife.now she is living happily with her husband and I am in dying stage.I need your advice how to go about it

smoothy · Mar 14, 2011, 10:02 AM

Simple... forget them. Move forward, you shouldn't have been messing around with someone that was married in the first place.

Its always a lose-lose situation. That applies the same whether it's the man OR woman that's married.

Yeah its going to be rough.. it always is. But you set yourself up because with a marriage involved, there wasn't going to be a happy ending.

Find someone that is going to be available next time.

That may be harsh... but sometimes what you need it to see what you did wrong in the first place. And to not repeat that mistake again.

starbond · Mar 14, 2011, 10:11 AM

Hey hey offcourse next time I will not repeat the same mistake.I will runaway from married ladies in fact I am afraid of keeping any type of relation with any girl or lady.that much I feel cheated

smoothy · Mar 14, 2011, 10:43 AM

No reason to avoid women that aren't married. THere are plenty of divorced, Widowed, separated as well as a few never married women out there. Not all work out, but at least IF it does... they aren't going to have a spouse at home. And you DO have to take that chance like any other person does.

There are no sure things... and there are no risk free relationships. You run the risk of ending up hurt... but that's the price you pay for a chance to find that right partner.

starbond · Mar 14, 2011, 11:53 AM

You are right smoothy.life cannot be without risks.I will keep your advice in mind.thanks allot for your advice.appreciated

smoothy · Mar 14, 2011, 01:06 PM

Exactly... you aren't going to find that real true love without dating a few toads along the way and getting hurt a few times. It builds character and helps you know when its really right.

JudyKayTee · Apr 10, 2011, 08:35 AM

I'm bored but if anyone has the time to compare the various posts Starbond can't seem to tell the same story twice.