Ok...I got saved about 5 or 6 months ago and my boyfriend who used to be a very good christian encouraged me to..well now my boyfriend is slacking off and has been purposely doing sins, and asks God for forgiveness, knowing that he will do it again.. and he thinks that just because he is saved he will still go to heaven and not hell..my question is will you still go to heaven if you are saved and doing sins on purpose and asking God for forgiveness but knowing that you are going to do it again or will you go to Hell? Please help me!!

Hope12

Hello SpeechlessTX,

I totally agree that the scripture below is not mistranslated. The scripture is correct but the interpretation of men as to it’s meaning is what I disagree with.
Acts 16:30, 31, RS: “‘Men, what must I do to be saved?’ And they [Paul and Silas] said, ‘Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.’”
Think about this is that all man has to do or is it that men take that scripture and give it the wrong meaning when it is read in context with other surrounding scriptures?
If that man and his household truly believed, would they not act in harmony with their belief? Certainly they would.

Now notice other scriptures:
Jude 1:5 (New King James Version)
5 But I want to remind you, though you once knew this, that the Lord, having saved the people out of the land of Egypt, afterward destroyed those who did not believe.
(What happened here they were saved and yet destroyed after?)

Matthew 24:13 (New King James Version)
13 But he who endures to the end shall be saved.
(So a person’s final salvation is not determined at the moment that he begins to put faith in Jesus, but it takes enduring to the end to be saved.)

Philippians 2:12 (New King James Version)

12 Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling;
(This scripture in Philippians was addressed to “the saints,” or holy ones, at Philippi, as stated in Philippians 1:1. Paul urged them not to be overly confident but to realize that their final salvation was not yet assured.)

Hebrews 10:26-27 (New King James Version)
26 For if we sin willfully after we have received the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, 27 but a certain fearful expectation of judgment, and fiery indignation which will devour the adversaries.
(Here the Bible does not go along with the idea that no matter what sins a person may commit after he is “saved” he will not lose his salvation. It encourages faithfulness. Take a look also at Hebrews 6:4-6, where it is shown that even a person anointed with holy spirit can lose his hope of salvation. There goes the idea of once saved always saved).

Ephesians 2:8-9 (New King James Version)
8 For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, 9 not of works, lest anyone should boast.
(The entire provision for salvation is an expression of God’s undeserved kindness. There is no way that a descendant of Adam can gain salvation on his own, no matter how noble his works are. Salvation is a gift from God given to those who put faith in the sin-atoning value of the sacrifice of his Son.)

Hebrews 5:9 (New King James Version)
9 And having been perfected, He became the author of eternal salvation to all who obey Him,
(Does this conflict with the statement that Christians are “saved through faith”? Not at all. Obedience simply demonstrates that their faith is genuine. So we need to believe in Jesus and be obedient to what he tells us to).


James 2:14; James 2:26 (New King James Version)
14 What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him?

26 For as the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also.

(A person does not earn salvation by his works. But anyone who has genuine faith will have works to go with it—works of obedience to the commands of God and Christ, works that demonstrate his faith and love. Without such works, his faith is dead.)

If this is not so, then why would these scriptures be in the Word of God.

Take care,
Hope12

Just my understanding of the scriptures.

laurenjd

1 John 5:18 "...anyone born of God does not continue to sin..."

I've known alot of people who sin purposely saying they'll just repent afterwards. But from experience, I've learned that only God can deal with these people. We are simply to love and lift up others in prayer, and that allows the Holy Spirit to do the work he needs to do. Only God knows the heart of a person, so only He knows how to correctly deal with these matters.

Matt. 22:39 "...love your neighbor as yourself..." This was Jesus second greatest commandment.

Just love and let God do the work! It's easier that way anyway!

GraceAndKudos

Philippians 2:12-The apostle Paul councels us to 'keep working out our own salvation with fear and trembling'...Why “keep working” and why with “fear and trembling,” if ‘once saved, always saved’?
Another point to note is what Matthew 24:13 says-“He that has endured to the end is the one that will be saved.”
I hope that covers it. All you can do is encourage him with your own good example. For as Galatians 6:5 says -"each one will carry his own load".

A

Tessy777

Speechless, just wanted you to know...I'm speechless...lol...GREAT RESPONSE!!!!!!!

KevinH777

Only God knows what is truly in our hearts and He is the judge of all man and "each of us will give an account of himself to God." (Romans 14:12) It is true that a person is not saved by works (Ephesians 2:8-9), but the Bible tells us that if a person has come to faith in Christ, they are a new creation "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!"

That does not mean a Christian will no longer sin, but now has the power (through the Holy Spirit and the Word - the sword of the Spirit) to overcome sin. Whether you BF is a Christian or not is between him and God and whether he is going to heaven or hell is up to God. "Sinning on purpose" is not what God's Word commands of the Christian.

God forgives (1 John 1:9) and He also disciplines His children (Hebrews 12:1-11).

Romans 6 is a good place to turn to understand how a Christian is to view sin (you may want to show these verses to him and pray together):

Romans 6:1-14

1 What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? 3 Or don't you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? 4 We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. 5 If we have been united with him like this in his death, we will certainly also be united with him in his resurrection. 6 For we know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves to sin— 7 because anyone who has died has been freed from sin.

8 Now if we died with Christ, we believe that we will also live with him. 9 For we know that since Christ was raised from the dead, he cannot die again; death no longer has mastery over him. 10 The death he died, he died to sin once for all; but the life he lives, he lives to God.

11 In the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus. 12 Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its evil desires. 13 Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer the parts of your body to him as instruments of righteousness. 14 For sin shall not be your master, because you are not under law, but under grace.

1 John 2:15-17:

15 Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For everything in the world—the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does—comes not from the Father but from the world. 17 The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.

Ephesians 4:22-24:

22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

Colossians 3:1-7:

1 Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. 2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. 3 For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. 4 When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.

5 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. 6 Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. 7 You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. 8 But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. 9 Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator. 11 Here there is no Greek or Jew, circumcised or uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave or free, but Christ is all, and is in all.

12 Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. 17 And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

Here is an article that may be helpful: Spiritual Growth

God Bless!

Starman

I don't see anyone here claiming that they never sin on purpose. All I see is people pointing out that we shouldn't get into the nasty habit of sinning on purpose simply because we think God will always forgive us no matter how we choose to behave-a concept which is totally unscriptural.

Hebrews 10
26If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, 27but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God.
NIV

BTW

There is much more involved in believing in the Lord Jesus Christ than a mere statement. Here is an example of people verbally acceping Jesus as savior but behaving in a way that makes them enemies of Christ.

"Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils ? and in thy name done many wonderful works ? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you, depart from me, ye that work iniquity." - Matt. 7:21-23.

Notice that Jesus wants nothing to do with such people and tells them to keep their distance.

Tessy777

Starman,

I agree that there is a difference in knowing "about" Jesus and believing "about "Jesus and having a personal relationship with Him. Having said that, notice what the Lord says.."Depart from me.....I NEVER knew you"..not I knew you once but you messed up so I dropped ya...nope....These are people who were never saved to begin with.

KevinH777

Starman & Tessy,

You both make solid points in the last 2 posts. I think a lot of people are deceived by religion (I am a good person or I pray and ask God for forgiveness) or think they are goind to heaven because they said a prayer accepting Jesus as their Savior. A disheartening thought about this - it may not be entirely their fault. There are a lot of churches ("seeker") and individuals preaching a false Gospel, "just say this prayer and you will go to heaven". It is sad that people (who may have good intentions) are actually misleading people with the wrong message. That is why your statement Tessy and the verses you quoted Starman ring so true. We all need to be praying for lost souls; that not only they would be presented the true Gospel, but God would give them the faith to understand it clearly and accept it.

People need to understand the seriousness of their sin (Romans 3:23; Romans 6:23) before a holy, just, and righteousness God - the Creator of the universe. God's wrath is constantly being revealed against sin and no one has an excuse for not glorifying God and thanking Him (Romans 1:18-21). The church and individuals need to be preaching the doctrine of sanctification right along with salvation.

There are false teachers in the church preaching a false Gospel. "But there were also false prophets among the people, just as there will be false teachers among you. They will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the sovereign Lord who bought them—bringing swift destruction on themselves. Many will follow their shameful ways and will bring the way of truth into disrepute." (2 Peter 2:1-2). That is why it is so important that people do not believe everything they hear someone else say (even in a church), 1 John 4:1, "Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world." It is important to read and study the Word for yourself, pray, and allow God's Spirit to give you wisdom and understanding.

As you said Tess, there are people who think they are saved but are really not, and that fits right in with Satan's plan, to deceive people. Standing behind every false teacher is Satan, "For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, masquerading as apostles of Christ. And no wonder, for Satan himself masquerades as an angel of light. It is not surprising, then, if his servants masquerade as servants of righteousness. Their end will be what their actions deserve." (2 Corinthians 11:13-15)

Philippians 2:12-13:

"Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose."

Yes, salvation is more than just a prayer, we need to work out our salvation, not earn because Jesus already took care of that (Romans 5:8). Working out our salvation is understanding that we were dead in our transgressions, "As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient." (Ephesians 2:1-2). But because of God's amazing grace, mercy and love He sent His Son to pay the penalty for our sins (John 3:16). Working out your salvation is each day remembering what God has done for you; He has rescued you from eternal death to eternal life, John 5:24 "I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life." What does He command in return?, "Therefore, prepare your minds for action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed. 14 As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. 15 But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; 16 for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy." (1 Peter 1:13-16)

As we work (pray, Bible study, church, fellowship, fruit of the Spirit -Galatians 5:16-26) at becoming more like Christ or becoming holy, which means to be different or set apart (different from how you used to live, different from the world around you); God will work in us through His Spirit, "being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." (Philippians 1:6)

Note: Regarding false teachers, I am not saying that every church, and every time you set foot in one, heresy is being preached. I am simple stating that we need to be mindful of it and when we are at church listening to a sermon or at a Bible study, we need to have our Bible reading right along. Then going over it through the week and praying to God for wisdom and understanding. Unfortunately, there are false teachers and people listening to them who take every word "they" preach as the Word of God.

I praise God and thank Him each day for my salvation! I am not perfect nor will I ever be, but I know that I am forgiven and I know that God gives me the strength and the power to overcome sin. That is the battle I face each and every day (flesh vs. spirit).

1 Timothy 11:12 "11 But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. 12 Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses."

"Then he said to them all: "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me." Luke 9:23

Blessings in Christ,

Kevin

Starman

I agree that these were people who were hipocrites from the beginning. The point is that they are rejected by Jesus from the outset because of there behavior. In short, their claims of being saved forever simply because they CLAIM to accept Jesus and perhaps CLAIM to be saved because of it are invalidated by their way of life. A very simple concept which seems to evade Speechless who seems to feel that the Ransom sacrifice of Jesus is merely a ticket for sinning and getting off scott free. Now THAT is a serious twisting and mangling of the simple clear message Jesus and his Apostles teach.

2 Peter 2:20-21 "For if they, having escaped the defilements of the world through the knowledge of (our) Lord and savior Jesus Christ, again become entangled and overcome by them, their last condition is worse than their first. For it would have been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness than after knowing it to turn back from the holy commandment handed down to them."

Once Saved, Always Saved

Tessy777

Starman,

NO. they weren't just hypocrites from the beginning. They Had NO relationship with Him, HE NEVER KNEW them. Never means..NEVER.

Consider the man in I Corinthians who was living with his Step mother as his wife. Was he sinning on purpose?..yes. Does Paul call him a unbeliever that is lost and going to hell because he sinned on purpose? NO! He called for the Church in Corinth to discipline him so that he would repent, and come to his senses. He even went so far as to call him wicked. He said this and I am paraphrasing 1 Corinthians 5:..look this guy is knee deep in sin, stop acting like nothing is going on, do not fellowship with him, Let Satan have at em. "to deliver such an one onto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, (get this Starman) ...THAT THE SPIRIT may be SAVED in the day of the Lord Jesus. The man was obviously saved and was going to continue to be saved but the Church was called to deliver him unto Satan.

I have been sealed with the Holy Spirit that minute I believed. I find NO scripture that states He pops out of me..when i totally CHOOSE to screw up and I do. In fact, I have a promise that Jesus will never leave me or forsake me...i believe it is translated..I will NEVER, no NEVER, no NEVER, leave you or forsake you. When Jesus says NEVER...He means NEVER. You say, "yes well, you can Leave HIM"...and I say to you....YES and I point to that verse and i say....but he says NEVER! I'm so glad I don't have to count on me.