[Lily96]

Moved to its own thread/edited


Hey,

I cheated on my boyfriend but I would not exactly call it cheating because I was threatened to do all that. I know it sounds stupid but before we were dating I sexted with this one guy who threatened me later when I was in a relationship with my boyfriend to sext with him or else he would show the previous sexts to everyone. He said that everything will be fine if I did that and for a while it did after which my boyfriend found out about it.

We broke up after that but then after a few days my boyfriend texted me that he missed me and that he forgives me and then we got back together. After a few days again I broke up with him because I thought he was taking revenge and I thought he was meeting this other girl and I broke up but he wasn’t cheating on me and he was trying to set up his friend.

After all that has happened he told me he misses me and loves me and will never let anything happen to me but he doesn’t want to get back with me and he constantly stares even though he knows I am staring at him. I just want to know if he has feelings for me.

Can you please help me?

[talaniman]

Let the hurt, pains and dissapointments settle down, and then see what happens. Forcing things while the wounds are fresh is a disaster. The trust has been broken badly.

Maybe this can't be fixed later, and it sure as heck can't be fixed now!

How old are you both?